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<blockquote data-quote="Andy4382" data-source="post: 757182" data-attributes="member: 24520"><p>Copa, This is the reason I'm on this forum. I'm totally lost is this situation. I want to go one way then the next the other way. I want to make that big step and STOP everything that is going on. I just want to run away some times and leave this all behind. The decisions I want to make want be the ones the rest of this family wants. Dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. To stop him there will be no peace around here. There will be drama. There will be a lot of hurtful fellings, there will be fingers pointing at each other, your to blame. It will be the same ol same ol again again repeat repeat. When will this come to a head? I'm not selfish anymore. At one time I my have been just a little but I'm over it now. I'm ready for some self care like everyone here is talking about. For my wife also. She is the one that needs some to. He has drove her crazy. My wife and I was talking that he started doing drugs around 15-16 years old. We have come to realize that's about the mentality age he is living in. He takes no responsibility for any actions he has done to himself or anyone else. What is the definition of turning your back on some one? We talked to him last night about stealing the money. I found later he had took $220. Told us he had bills to pay to keep his car from being repossessed." Where are the receipts where you paid ? I was in a hurry and didn't get any?" So on the 21st of March he walked out of a very good rehab place that even housed, feed and worked with him on a daily bases. Thats also the day he went to jail. 5 days later the court system let him out over covid-19. so there it is back to the same old <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy4382, post: 757182, member: 24520"] Copa, This is the reason I'm on this forum. I'm totally lost is this situation. I want to go one way then the next the other way. I want to make that big step and STOP everything that is going on. I just want to run away some times and leave this all behind. The decisions I want to make want be the ones the rest of this family wants. Dammed if you do and dammed if you don't. To stop him there will be no peace around here. There will be drama. There will be a lot of hurtful fellings, there will be fingers pointing at each other, your to blame. It will be the same ol same ol again again repeat repeat. When will this come to a head? I'm not selfish anymore. At one time I my have been just a little but I'm over it now. I'm ready for some self care like everyone here is talking about. For my wife also. She is the one that needs some to. He has drove her crazy. My wife and I was talking that he started doing drugs around 15-16 years old. We have come to realize that's about the mentality age he is living in. He takes no responsibility for any actions he has done to himself or anyone else. What is the definition of turning your back on some one? We talked to him last night about stealing the money. I found later he had took $220. Told us he had bills to pay to keep his car from being repossessed." Where are the receipts where you paid ? I was in a hurry and didn't get any?" So on the 21st of March he walked out of a very good rehab place that even housed, feed and worked with him on a daily bases. Thats also the day he went to jail. 5 days later the court system let him out over covid-19. so there it is back to the same old :censored2:. [/QUOTE]
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