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<blockquote data-quote="Andy4382" data-source="post: 757196" data-attributes="member: 24520"><p>Well this afternoon I wanted my wife and I to agree on some boundaries. So we sat down and came up with some. Before we got done my son over heard me talking about what some of the boundaries needed to be and didn't like that we where talking about him. So he got a little ill and I did to. So finally we got them done ask him to sit down to go over them. got started on them and wouldn't let my wife tell them to him without interrupting her. So I started and he did the same thing to me. So he said he had a important phone call and took it to his bed room while we where discussing the boundaries. Well after 10 minutes or so we where wondering if he was coming back so the wife went looking for him. He finally came back out and got thru it. The phone call was a suicidal hot line. We had no idea what it was, we thought it was a job offer or something. Then the wife said she thought it was a rehab center. I had no idea he was in that kind of shape. He swore up and that he hasn't used in 2 months. Well I my have said the wrong thing about that some one needed to take him so I said take your car, cause I thought at first it was a rehab center. So this afternoon we took him to where he made the phone call to the suicidal place. So when I said take you car, I didnt know it was that place or I would not have said that. when you in a argument you say stupid stuff you don't really mean. Also he didn't want me to go when they went so I said I am or I want be here when you get back. So some more words you don't mean to say in a argument. So now my wife thinks that all three of us need to be separated for a while. The only defence I had was that if we where living here by our selves we would not be having this conversation. So now she is in one bed and I'm in another. Some of the things he has put me thru over the years of lies, drug use, drinking, dui, hell raising and the past 3-4 years of stealing from us puts a very bad taste in your mouth. I have hollered, i have verbally abused him, i have had to hit him, I have kick him out, I have threaten to kick him numerous times, I have done so much to him to see if he would just do the right things in life. I do love him, I have helped him in countless ways, I have bought him trucks ,cars , hunting rifle, hunting gear, took him on vacations, ect….. I fell I've done him the best that I could do, but still maybe my good enough wasn't enough in the right direction. My wife wants my son to live with us until he can afford a place of his own even though he is and addict. Some people say buy him a tent and drop him off in the woods. Just because she doesn't want him to be homeless living on the street or under bridge. This Mother is not going to choose their child over anything else no matter what it or who it is. I have read all this forum to her since I have started posting. knowing she may find her son in his own bed dead of a overdose than him die somewhere on the street, under a bridge or any other cold place on this earth she will take that chance and let him live under the same roof as her for as long as it takes. So now I may need to seek some help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy4382, post: 757196, member: 24520"] Well this afternoon I wanted my wife and I to agree on some boundaries. So we sat down and came up with some. Before we got done my son over heard me talking about what some of the boundaries needed to be and didn't like that we where talking about him. So he got a little ill and I did to. So finally we got them done ask him to sit down to go over them. got started on them and wouldn't let my wife tell them to him without interrupting her. So I started and he did the same thing to me. So he said he had a important phone call and took it to his bed room while we where discussing the boundaries. Well after 10 minutes or so we where wondering if he was coming back so the wife went looking for him. He finally came back out and got thru it. The phone call was a suicidal hot line. We had no idea what it was, we thought it was a job offer or something. Then the wife said she thought it was a rehab center. I had no idea he was in that kind of shape. He swore up and that he hasn't used in 2 months. Well I my have said the wrong thing about that some one needed to take him so I said take your car, cause I thought at first it was a rehab center. So this afternoon we took him to where he made the phone call to the suicidal place. So when I said take you car, I didnt know it was that place or I would not have said that. when you in a argument you say stupid stuff you don't really mean. Also he didn't want me to go when they went so I said I am or I want be here when you get back. So some more words you don't mean to say in a argument. So now my wife thinks that all three of us need to be separated for a while. The only defence I had was that if we where living here by our selves we would not be having this conversation. So now she is in one bed and I'm in another. Some of the things he has put me thru over the years of lies, drug use, drinking, dui, hell raising and the past 3-4 years of stealing from us puts a very bad taste in your mouth. I have hollered, i have verbally abused him, i have had to hit him, I have kick him out, I have threaten to kick him numerous times, I have done so much to him to see if he would just do the right things in life. I do love him, I have helped him in countless ways, I have bought him trucks ,cars , hunting rifle, hunting gear, took him on vacations, ect….. I fell I've done him the best that I could do, but still maybe my good enough wasn't enough in the right direction. My wife wants my son to live with us until he can afford a place of his own even though he is and addict. Some people say buy him a tent and drop him off in the woods. Just because she doesn't want him to be homeless living on the street or under bridge. This Mother is not going to choose their child over anything else no matter what it or who it is. I have read all this forum to her since I have started posting. knowing she may find her son in his own bed dead of a overdose than him die somewhere on the street, under a bridge or any other cold place on this earth she will take that chance and let him live under the same roof as her for as long as it takes. So now I may need to seek some help. [/QUOTE]
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