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<blockquote data-quote="Andy4382" data-source="post: 757516" data-attributes="member: 24520"><p>Hey jmom, copa is great I like what she says. My wife is depressed for 3-4 years now after her mom passed away with dementia. That was her best friend as I am to. The other family and marriage problems as well. She is beautiful inside and out. She dosnt give up easily, some day I pray she will realize that she cant make him change. I'm trying my best to stay out of this kinda like you husband. I can be very verbally abusive. I have came to realize i'm not going to change him but also i'm not gonna turn my back on them. We was to do some boundaries with him a couple weeks ago and ended up in a psychiatric ward. He called a suicide hot line so we took him to the hospital. He was out in 5 days or so with medications to help him. Telling him not to do drugs is like telling the grass not to grow. He takes advantage every chance he gets of us. Has no morals or sorry for anything he does until he has done it. My brother, well he had drug and alcohol addiction also. He had 3 kids and his wife was leaving him for another drug and alcoholic person. She was no better than him and the last child didn't belong to him. He was looking for attention and no one was watching him. I think more of a accident. He was most likely depressed ,bi-polar, drunk and high on weed. It was ruled a suicide. Yes I need to keep my mouth shut, sounds like your husband and I are a little alike. We just cant seem to do it. He doesn't want boundaries. He wants to do what he wants to do. just like this afternoon i'm weed eating the place and he is sitting in a chair watching me. He finally came and took the weed eater. You and your husband know to well about intimacy, it sucks with all this going down. Just aint there as much as it once was. wink wink. Thanks for your reply .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy4382, post: 757516, member: 24520"] Hey jmom, copa is great I like what she says. My wife is depressed for 3-4 years now after her mom passed away with dementia. That was her best friend as I am to. The other family and marriage problems as well. She is beautiful inside and out. She dosnt give up easily, some day I pray she will realize that she cant make him change. I'm trying my best to stay out of this kinda like you husband. I can be very verbally abusive. I have came to realize i'm not going to change him but also i'm not gonna turn my back on them. We was to do some boundaries with him a couple weeks ago and ended up in a psychiatric ward. He called a suicide hot line so we took him to the hospital. He was out in 5 days or so with medications to help him. Telling him not to do drugs is like telling the grass not to grow. He takes advantage every chance he gets of us. Has no morals or sorry for anything he does until he has done it. My brother, well he had drug and alcohol addiction also. He had 3 kids and his wife was leaving him for another drug and alcoholic person. She was no better than him and the last child didn't belong to him. He was looking for attention and no one was watching him. I think more of a accident. He was most likely depressed ,bi-polar, drunk and high on weed. It was ruled a suicide. Yes I need to keep my mouth shut, sounds like your husband and I are a little alike. We just cant seem to do it. He doesn't want boundaries. He wants to do what he wants to do. just like this afternoon i'm weed eating the place and he is sitting in a chair watching me. He finally came and took the weed eater. You and your husband know to well about intimacy, it sucks with all this going down. Just aint there as much as it once was. wink wink. Thanks for your reply . [/QUOTE]
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