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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 196611" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p></p><p>ok i know your head must be spinning yet i agree do not panic right now, keep in mind that it is good he spoke to you, and told you. that is huge in itself, often people won't share these thoughts because they are so afraid of them.</p><p></p><p>for now, i don't think i would treat him as an outcast in anyway, he still has to know that you love him, yet i understand your concerns for wanting to keep the girls safe ofcourse. </p><p></p><p>i would suggest maybe tell kids your going to have a sleep over with them, let them camp out in your room. yet any move you make right now he will know it's due to what you told him. i think that getting to the pysch a.s.a.p. is warranted.</p><p></p><p>it's hard to think of this right now, yet once you begin the therapy session, or even an initial talk with-the pysch keeping your mind open that your child may have suffered some type of violation himself is possible, possible.</p><p></p><p>ok try to stay calm if possible, i know this is very hard. my family dealt with a similar situation and well that person was removed from the home immediately. it was very sad.</p><p></p><p>good luck and update us and let us know how you are</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 196611, member: 4514"] hi, ok i know your head must be spinning yet i agree do not panic right now, keep in mind that it is good he spoke to you, and told you. that is huge in itself, often people won't share these thoughts because they are so afraid of them. for now, i don't think i would treat him as an outcast in anyway, he still has to know that you love him, yet i understand your concerns for wanting to keep the girls safe ofcourse. i would suggest maybe tell kids your going to have a sleep over with them, let them camp out in your room. yet any move you make right now he will know it's due to what you told him. i think that getting to the pysch a.s.a.p. is warranted. it's hard to think of this right now, yet once you begin the therapy session, or even an initial talk with-the pysch keeping your mind open that your child may have suffered some type of violation himself is possible, possible. ok try to stay calm if possible, i know this is very hard. my family dealt with a similar situation and well that person was removed from the home immediately. it was very sad. good luck and update us and let us know how you are [/QUOTE]
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