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Son avoiding home after being released from juvenile hall
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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 102155" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>I understand completely. It sounds like a rerun of my life and difficult child. My son went to many rehabs or whatever - when they had had enough of him and vice versa they would say come and get him! I was so sick of hearing that - it is like if they dont come and be perfect or try they cant stay. Why in the world do we want them back to do the same thing all over again! The last time my difficult child did that - he was in Georgia at a rehab I had tried a year to get him into and convinced the PO that he was ready - or he convinced them - anyway a month into the 6 months to a year stay - they called us to come and get him! I thought just like you - oh no - I am not having him here to ransack my house again and cause pure he88 here anymore - I said take him to the nearest jail and call Greenville county to come and get him - he knew if he messed up he was going back to jail - well they did and the judge violated his probation and he went to a correctional facility for 11 months - however if didnt "take" because he is back in jail now! How much more do we have to endure? We just physically had the child and did all the things we knew to do - you name it and I have done it - so have you. I would stick by my guns of having someone else either go get him or find another place - they always want to send them back home even when they know they are not well. It is easy for them. :rolleyes:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 102155, member: 3948"] I understand completely. It sounds like a rerun of my life and difficult child. My son went to many rehabs or whatever - when they had had enough of him and vice versa they would say come and get him! I was so sick of hearing that - it is like if they dont come and be perfect or try they cant stay. Why in the world do we want them back to do the same thing all over again! The last time my difficult child did that - he was in Georgia at a rehab I had tried a year to get him into and convinced the PO that he was ready - or he convinced them - anyway a month into the 6 months to a year stay - they called us to come and get him! I thought just like you - oh no - I am not having him here to ransack my house again and cause pure he88 here anymore - I said take him to the nearest jail and call Greenville county to come and get him - he knew if he messed up he was going back to jail - well they did and the judge violated his probation and he went to a correctional facility for 11 months - however if didnt "take" because he is back in jail now! How much more do we have to endure? We just physically had the child and did all the things we knew to do - you name it and I have done it - so have you. I would stick by my guns of having someone else either go get him or find another place - they always want to send them back home even when they know they are not well. It is easy for them. [img]:rolleyes:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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