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Son called to be picked up from a dangerous situation-I refused. Sorry-VERY long!
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<blockquote data-quote="blackgnat" data-source="post: 596644" data-attributes="member: 13561"><p>If you don't mind me giving the next installment (though I wasn't really expecting one) he just called me to let me know he was okay. I said fine and that I'd pick him up Sunday because he has a dr appointment on Monday. </p><p>20 Minutes later he called again and said that he and his friend Dan were kind of stranded. I said I was NOT going to pick them up. The place they are is 45 mins to an hour away and I just went there yesterday and maybe a couple more times this week.</p><p></p><p>He then was very quiet and said."Well we were wondering if we could come up and stay with you tonight and leave the next day."</p><p></p><p>WHAAAAAAAT?</p><p></p><p>I said absolutely not and that he had obviously not understood our conversation of yesterday, when he CLEARLY chose the lifestyle that he is claiming to want.</p><p></p><p>Could I have got a clearer wake up call that he is full of it? This is partly why I'm so confused and drained. He doesn't know what he wants and changes his mind every five minutes, as soon as the going gets tough.</p><p></p><p>I'm more depressed now and wondering if I will ever get out of this grip.</p><p></p><p>I don't even want to [ick him up Sunday for his dr apt on Monday. I want to be done.</p><p></p><p>I can't believe he thinks I'm such a pushover that he has the cojones to ask me that question. I TOLD him I didn't even want HIM to ever stay here again, having sex with strangers in a house that I'm so kindly allowing him to stay in. He must think I'm just this flake who is a taxi service, always ready to meet his needs. This is the kid who put me in the ICU for 4 days, after hitting me so hard that I had a bleed on the brain.</p><p></p><p>Sorry I am just venting. I guess it's because I haven't been consistent. But now's the time because I am destined for the nuthouse myself if I keep playing his head games.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="blackgnat, post: 596644, member: 13561"] If you don't mind me giving the next installment (though I wasn't really expecting one) he just called me to let me know he was okay. I said fine and that I'd pick him up Sunday because he has a dr appointment on Monday. 20 Minutes later he called again and said that he and his friend Dan were kind of stranded. I said I was NOT going to pick them up. The place they are is 45 mins to an hour away and I just went there yesterday and maybe a couple more times this week. He then was very quiet and said."Well we were wondering if we could come up and stay with you tonight and leave the next day." WHAAAAAAAT? I said absolutely not and that he had obviously not understood our conversation of yesterday, when he CLEARLY chose the lifestyle that he is claiming to want. Could I have got a clearer wake up call that he is full of it? This is partly why I'm so confused and drained. He doesn't know what he wants and changes his mind every five minutes, as soon as the going gets tough. I'm more depressed now and wondering if I will ever get out of this grip. I don't even want to [ick him up Sunday for his dr apt on Monday. I want to be done. I can't believe he thinks I'm such a pushover that he has the cojones to ask me that question. I TOLD him I didn't even want HIM to ever stay here again, having sex with strangers in a house that I'm so kindly allowing him to stay in. He must think I'm just this flake who is a taxi service, always ready to meet his needs. This is the kid who put me in the ICU for 4 days, after hitting me so hard that I had a bleed on the brain. Sorry I am just venting. I guess it's because I haven't been consistent. But now's the time because I am destined for the nuthouse myself if I keep playing his head games. [/QUOTE]
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