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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 632915" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Kathy I totally understand where you are at. My difficult child has also been in rehab numerous times, at this point I have lost count. It is true your son has not been in jail long and so is probably just looking for an easy way out.... so letting him stay there a bit longer is not a bad thing. I agree totally with not bailing him out!!!</p><p></p><p>In my sons case he was held without bail so I didnt have that option.... but I did make it very clear to the court he could not come home so did not have anywhere to go..... if I had been willing to bring him home they would have released him, but I was not willing to do that because it would have been a disaster for all of us.</p><p></p><p>So yes let them hold him..... but then as they are looking at plea bargains rehab is a good option.... and the good thing then is if he walks he is violating probation and they will hold him again..</p><p></p><p>In the meantime take care of yourself... and if your son gets nasty on the phone hang up. You dont need to put up with that.</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 632915, member: 15801"] Kathy I totally understand where you are at. My difficult child has also been in rehab numerous times, at this point I have lost count. It is true your son has not been in jail long and so is probably just looking for an easy way out.... so letting him stay there a bit longer is not a bad thing. I agree totally with not bailing him out!!! In my sons case he was held without bail so I didnt have that option.... but I did make it very clear to the court he could not come home so did not have anywhere to go..... if I had been willing to bring him home they would have released him, but I was not willing to do that because it would have been a disaster for all of us. So yes let them hold him..... but then as they are looking at plea bargains rehab is a good option.... and the good thing then is if he walks he is violating probation and they will hold him again.. In the meantime take care of yourself... and if your son gets nasty on the phone hang up. You dont need to put up with that. TL Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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