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Son stayed out all night Husband did nothing
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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 715789" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>So I am frustrated with the harm reduction and CRAFT method. I have downloaded a site from a FB group I belong to. </p><p><a href="http://the20minuteguide.com/parents/helping/natural-consequences/#.WX4BJppE2aM" target="_blank">Natural Consequences - Allowing Them to Happen - The 20 Minute Guide</a></p><p>This is based on the CRAFT method. No where in there does it state that along them to leave is the wrong thing to do. </p><p>We get mixed messages and different advice from different resources. I find this the most frustrating. Well comes a time when enough is enough and the natural consequence will be you don't get to love st home with us any more. </p><p>Reading this guide reminded me of communication textixs that help focus on positive behavior and narural outcomes. I am not texting scolding or bothering with my son any more. He will face the consequences of his actions. </p><p>I have told him this week that he must wake himself up for work. I am not waking him up any more. If he sleeps in and misses work too bad. </p><p>If he continues to break the rules he will be asked to leave. My husband has to get on the same page.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 715789, member: 21895"] So I am frustrated with the harm reduction and CRAFT method. I have downloaded a site from a FB group I belong to. [URL="http://the20minuteguide.com/parents/helping/natural-consequences/#.WX4BJppE2aM"]Natural Consequences - Allowing Them to Happen - The 20 Minute Guide[/URL] This is based on the CRAFT method. No where in there does it state that along them to leave is the wrong thing to do. We get mixed messages and different advice from different resources. I find this the most frustrating. Well comes a time when enough is enough and the natural consequence will be you don't get to love st home with us any more. Reading this guide reminded me of communication textixs that help focus on positive behavior and narural outcomes. I am not texting scolding or bothering with my son any more. He will face the consequences of his actions. I have told him this week that he must wake himself up for work. I am not waking him up any more. If he sleeps in and misses work too bad. If he continues to break the rules he will be asked to leave. My husband has to get on the same page. [/QUOTE]
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