Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Sons' girlfriend died in her sleep
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 685782" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Thank you everyone. I thought my son would be the one to commit suicide, not his girlfriend. He sent me dark poetry and said he wrote them when he wanted to die, I ask if he still did and he said no, he was just mad at God. The loss of her sister less than a year ago was so difficult for her. The signs were there, she posted messages about seeing her sister soon, how life wasn't worth living.</p><p></p><p>The thing is, you can not force these individuals to seek help! I have called clinics and the police to check on my son when they had a fight and he cut himself and threatened suicide. He was Baker Acted twice, they keep them for a day or two and release them.</p><p></p><p>My son told me counselors are dumb a**es and when he finds one as smart as he is he will talk to them. They look for instant cures! That's where the drugs and alcohol come in (in my opinion). It numbs them, the problem is, the problems are still there after the drugs and alcohol wear off. </p><p></p><p>If they will not help themselves, the only thing we can do is learn to detach and take care of ourselves. This is the part that we get judged for! So many see this as we no longer love them, so very untrue!</p><p></p><p>Blessings!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 685782, member: 13558"] Thank you everyone. I thought my son would be the one to commit suicide, not his girlfriend. He sent me dark poetry and said he wrote them when he wanted to die, I ask if he still did and he said no, he was just mad at God. The loss of her sister less than a year ago was so difficult for her. The signs were there, she posted messages about seeing her sister soon, how life wasn't worth living. The thing is, you can not force these individuals to seek help! I have called clinics and the police to check on my son when they had a fight and he cut himself and threatened suicide. He was Baker Acted twice, they keep them for a day or two and release them. My son told me counselors are dumb a**es and when he finds one as smart as he is he will talk to them. They look for instant cures! That's where the drugs and alcohol come in (in my opinion). It numbs them, the problem is, the problems are still there after the drugs and alcohol wear off. If they will not help themselves, the only thing we can do is learn to detach and take care of ourselves. This is the part that we get judged for! So many see this as we no longer love them, so very untrue! Blessings! [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Sons' girlfriend died in her sleep
Top