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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 104409" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I'm sorry, Karen. I doubt she is mature enough to learn the major lesson in this saga...she (and only she) makes decisions</p><p>about her life. She can ask your advice or her Dad's input but</p><p>SHE needs to take ownership. Otherwise she will end up like you.</p><p>She'll be a wonderful person who loses her sense of self as she</p><p>nurtures others.</p><p></p><p>It's a hard lesson. I learned in my late 20's. Some people learn it in their 70's. I hope that somehow, tactfully, she can</p><p>be led to thinking and acting independently. It's OK for her to</p><p>cry. It's OK for her to be angry. It's OK for her to do anything that allows her to feel her feelings..including enjoying</p><p>pizza with her Dad but knowing that her decision is hers alone.</p><p>DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 104409, member: 35"] I'm sorry, Karen. I doubt she is mature enough to learn the major lesson in this saga...she (and only she) makes decisions about her life. She can ask your advice or her Dad's input but SHE needs to take ownership. Otherwise she will end up like you. She'll be a wonderful person who loses her sense of self as she nurtures others. It's a hard lesson. I learned in my late 20's. Some people learn it in their 70's. I hope that somehow, tactfully, she can be led to thinking and acting independently. It's OK for her to cry. It's OK for her to be angry. It's OK for her to do anything that allows her to feel her feelings..including enjoying pizza with her Dad but knowing that her decision is hers alone. DDD [/QUOTE]
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