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'Soooo hard to let go when you really love and care
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 662535" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks for all of you. Thanks so much. I have the tools and need to work them because this one is really out of my hands. </p><p></p><p>Lill special thanks to you. She is yanking him out of a school he does well in and is moving the maximum distance she can so she can make it impossible for Bart to see him on his days. But she hasn't moved yet. Furthermore she hasn't answered the questions she needs to answer by TODAY...so, yeah, I do trust in the system. Thanks again.</p><p></p><p>I'm a worrier by nature and to everyone here who thinks they can't learn to detach (a little at least) if I can do it anyone can. I was born worrying. I worry over things there is nothing to worry about. That's why I did so much therapy that helps get over the need to control the outcome of things that you and I can not control. Easier said than done, but so far I have Skyped Buddha Baby, have taken a wonderful shower with great smelling bodywash, and am waiting for Jumper to get up to suggest a lunch date.</p><p></p><p>For those who want to know what my therapists have told me through the years...the best way to detach is to distract. Not forget. Forgetting is bad. Distract means taking time out from worrying to, say, take a dauaghter out to lunch and laugh a lot. When you get back to your worrying it is often with a clearer head. If not, distract again. Take a power walk. Do some art. Read. Watch a comedy movie. </p><p></p><p>RE, I I will do the honest guys meditation right away. Thank you so much for the susggestion. </p><p></p><p>And I have to remember (as we all do)</p><p></p><p>God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change,</p><p>the courage to change the thing I can,</p><p>and the wisdom to k now the difference.</p><p></p><p>Thank you again. This site is da bomb!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 662535, member: 1550"] Thanks for all of you. Thanks so much. I have the tools and need to work them because this one is really out of my hands. Lill special thanks to you. She is yanking him out of a school he does well in and is moving the maximum distance she can so she can make it impossible for Bart to see him on his days. But she hasn't moved yet. Furthermore she hasn't answered the questions she needs to answer by TODAY...so, yeah, I do trust in the system. Thanks again. I'm a worrier by nature and to everyone here who thinks they can't learn to detach (a little at least) if I can do it anyone can. I was born worrying. I worry over things there is nothing to worry about. That's why I did so much therapy that helps get over the need to control the outcome of things that you and I can not control. Easier said than done, but so far I have Skyped Buddha Baby, have taken a wonderful shower with great smelling bodywash, and am waiting for Jumper to get up to suggest a lunch date. For those who want to know what my therapists have told me through the years...the best way to detach is to distract. Not forget. Forgetting is bad. Distract means taking time out from worrying to, say, take a dauaghter out to lunch and laugh a lot. When you get back to your worrying it is often with a clearer head. If not, distract again. Take a power walk. Do some art. Read. Watch a comedy movie. RE, I I will do the honest guys meditation right away. Thank you so much for the susggestion. And I have to remember (as we all do) God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the thing I can, and the wisdom to k now the difference. Thank you again. This site is da bomb!!! [/QUOTE]
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