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Sorry girl, need to vent. Here we go !! Sleepless night again !!
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 520696" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>I could do it. But as my dad is (a journalist), and as his wife is a psychologist, it may end to Court and such. So I would be in the mess more than it's already the mess, especially for me. It may turn against me. </p><p>So yeah, better being extra careful with those two. Especially his wife, the .02$ psychologist. </p><p>My 7 years old stepbrother is their kid. </p><p></p><p>Mom cares because the perspective of a family war does NOT make her happy at all. </p><p>This story of French citizenship may end up in a family war, as I know my dad and his super stupid wife. </p><p></p><p>Dad understood that he needs to quiet himself before we talk together. </p><p>Probably in a few days/weeks, he will be able to hear that I did it for his own good and for his son's good. Now he is not. I let him blow up like a big boy, then we speak when he quiets himself (which always happens earlier or later been there done that). </p><p>I made an appointment to my therapist on Tuesday. </p><p></p><p></p><p>And to give some positive in such a mess, better a medical exam right now than seeing him caught by the police or in an accident : if he gets caught by the police for drunk driving, then, his wife has some chance not to be able to request French citizenship because he will be in the police file (for this drunk driving). Now, he can avoid it by this administrative path I set up. </p><p>So in this whole mess, I can see some positive sides. At least, it's a way to tell dad that drunk driving is <u>absolutely not okay</u> and also, we avoid the double mess of social services, the risk of a Court against me and so on. And he knows that I stick to it even if he begs and such. </p><p>At least, I gave him consequences for his actions, but we avoided a penal path which would have led to much more damaging consequences (money, my stepbrother who will receive more damages than ever whereas it's not his fault....). </p><p>In the meantime, I have to stay strong, and not to give in towards him and towards mom (who is such a fearful of conflict that with him, she gave in way too much : with him, she is weak because she fears of the conflict to such a point....). So I have to put on my big girl therapeutic panties, and move on. </p><p>For me, it's the essential right now.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 520696, member: 14306"] I could do it. But as my dad is (a journalist), and as his wife is a psychologist, it may end to Court and such. So I would be in the mess more than it's already the mess, especially for me. It may turn against me. So yeah, better being extra careful with those two. Especially his wife, the .02$ psychologist. My 7 years old stepbrother is their kid. Mom cares because the perspective of a family war does NOT make her happy at all. This story of French citizenship may end up in a family war, as I know my dad and his super stupid wife. Dad understood that he needs to quiet himself before we talk together. Probably in a few days/weeks, he will be able to hear that I did it for his own good and for his son's good. Now he is not. I let him blow up like a big boy, then we speak when he quiets himself (which always happens earlier or later been there done that). I made an appointment to my therapist on Tuesday. And to give some positive in such a mess, better a medical exam right now than seeing him caught by the police or in an accident : if he gets caught by the police for drunk driving, then, his wife has some chance not to be able to request French citizenship because he will be in the police file (for this drunk driving). Now, he can avoid it by this administrative path I set up. So in this whole mess, I can see some positive sides. At least, it's a way to tell dad that drunk driving is [U]absolutely not okay[/U] and also, we avoid the double mess of social services, the risk of a Court against me and so on. And he knows that I stick to it even if he begs and such. At least, I gave him consequences for his actions, but we avoided a penal path which would have led to much more damaging consequences (money, my stepbrother who will receive more damages than ever whereas it's not his fault....). In the meantime, I have to stay strong, and not to give in towards him and towards mom (who is such a fearful of conflict that with him, she gave in way too much : with him, she is weak because she fears of the conflict to such a point....). So I have to put on my big girl therapeutic panties, and move on. For me, it's the essential right now. [/QUOTE]
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