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Sorry girl, need to vent. Here we go !! Sleepless night again !!
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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 520702" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>I understand what you say. </p><p></p><p>He already had the official medical exam (he has to go back within a year, and he may end with having regular exams. Let treat it like occupational medicine, there is no reason to go on crisis). </p><p></p><p>My only idea is having someone in between for giving him the whole explanation : I can't do it alone, he won't listen. If I bring a professional between both, then he will listen. been there done that, especially when he asked me to stop taking my medicines (for my ADHD). I had to stay strong and psychiatrist lectured him, it's the only way to make him listen. </p><p>Same for my deafness : unless he didn't see my ENT doctor, my deafness didn't exist. been there done that</p><p>As it's the only way to make him understand, be it, and let use this mean to make him understand. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>The plan A is bringing my dad to my therapist. It would be the best solution, because therapist would explain to him that not only it's absolutely not ok to drunk drive, but also that I did it for his and my stepbrother's sake. However, my therapist may not agree to see my dad with me. </p><p></p><p>If it doesn't work with therapist, I can ask to my GP to speak to him, of course, when I'm here with him. But also, not sure she would accept. </p><p></p><p>Another possibility is seeing an approved GP for driving license, but outside an official medical exam (because let be realistic, the approved doctors don't care only about the driving license stuff, they also see patients outside any administrative stuff). Just to make him understand that it's absolutely not ok to drunk drive, and that I did it for his own sake and that yes, it's a real problem.</p><p>But I'm not sure that an approved GP would accept to give him a lesson upon daughter's request. Even if I know some approved GPs. </p><p>I could also ask in the sleep center where I will be cared for my ADHD to give him a lesson about it, but also, not sure they would accept. </p><p></p><p>Any other ideas ?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 520702, member: 14306"] I understand what you say. He already had the official medical exam (he has to go back within a year, and he may end with having regular exams. Let treat it like occupational medicine, there is no reason to go on crisis). My only idea is having someone in between for giving him the whole explanation : I can't do it alone, he won't listen. If I bring a professional between both, then he will listen. been there done that, especially when he asked me to stop taking my medicines (for my ADHD). I had to stay strong and psychiatrist lectured him, it's the only way to make him listen. Same for my deafness : unless he didn't see my ENT doctor, my deafness didn't exist. been there done that As it's the only way to make him understand, be it, and let use this mean to make him understand. The plan A is bringing my dad to my therapist. It would be the best solution, because therapist would explain to him that not only it's absolutely not ok to drunk drive, but also that I did it for his and my stepbrother's sake. However, my therapist may not agree to see my dad with me. If it doesn't work with therapist, I can ask to my GP to speak to him, of course, when I'm here with him. But also, not sure she would accept. Another possibility is seeing an approved GP for driving license, but outside an official medical exam (because let be realistic, the approved doctors don't care only about the driving license stuff, they also see patients outside any administrative stuff). Just to make him understand that it's absolutely not ok to drunk drive, and that I did it for his own sake and that yes, it's a real problem. But I'm not sure that an approved GP would accept to give him a lesson upon daughter's request. Even if I know some approved GPs. I could also ask in the sleep center where I will be cared for my ADHD to give him a lesson about it, but also, not sure they would accept. Any other ideas ? [/QUOTE]
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