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Sorry, Me Again - Advice on This Please?
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 512937" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Sounds like you are doing all you can. </p><p></p><p>However, I wouldn't be focusing on the "lie of omission". Technically, she has a legitimate argument. KUDOS! (stay with me) HOWEVER wouldn't she also get in trouble for going somewhere she shouldn't? I would focus on that.</p><p></p><p>She does have the makings of a lawyer. She used a common tactic of picking apart the thing you were focusing on - the lie - to make you forget the thing you can actually nail her on anyway - being somewhere she's not supposed to be.</p><p></p><p>You can completely freak her out by going in and apologizing to her and conceding that she is right, that she really did NOT lie. Let her enjoy her victory, and then drop the bomb of consequences for being somewhere she shouldn't be. Not necessarily saying to do this. I don't' know her well enough to say if it will work, and it could be argued that it's <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/sochildish.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sochildish:" title="sochildish :sochildish:" data-shortname=":sochildish:" /> but nothing else has gotten through to her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 512937, member: 11965"] Sounds like you are doing all you can. However, I wouldn't be focusing on the "lie of omission". Technically, she has a legitimate argument. KUDOS! (stay with me) HOWEVER wouldn't she also get in trouble for going somewhere she shouldn't? I would focus on that. She does have the makings of a lawyer. She used a common tactic of picking apart the thing you were focusing on - the lie - to make you forget the thing you can actually nail her on anyway - being somewhere she's not supposed to be. You can completely freak her out by going in and apologizing to her and conceding that she is right, that she really did NOT lie. Let her enjoy her victory, and then drop the bomb of consequences for being somewhere she shouldn't be. Not necessarily saying to do this. I don't' know her well enough to say if it will work, and it could be argued that it's :sochildish: but nothing else has gotten through to her. [/QUOTE]
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