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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 450320" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Huggggggz from me too!</p><p></p><p>From how it sounds, it is NOT your fault. Sounds like the kids have issues...maybe they are too much like their Dad...and I'll bet there are A LOT of people who DO love and appreciate you. it is so hurtful when your kids are not appreciating you, but that could all change when they see Dad for who he is.</p><p></p><p>For now, I hope you are in therapy. Also, I think seeing a nutritionist and working out would make you feel great. I'm prone to depression and working out really helps me. I hate doing it...lol...but I do it to make myself feel better. It's time for YOU to take care of YOU. You are NOT a failure or a bad person and your kids are wrong. They just are. Unfortunately, they both have poor dispositions. A therapist can help you deal with them too.</p><p></p><p>Forget the kid's therapist w ho blames you for everything. Not all therapists are good (I've seen enough). She/he is listening to ex/kids and therapists also come with their own baggage. Find somebody you can relate to who doesn't see anyone in your family. Have fun with your family and friends. Try to help your kids, if you can, but don't give up on yourself. </p><p></p><p>I do have a question: If ex gives the kids beer, why can he see them?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 450320, member: 1550"] Huggggggz from me too! From how it sounds, it is NOT your fault. Sounds like the kids have issues...maybe they are too much like their Dad...and I'll bet there are A LOT of people who DO love and appreciate you. it is so hurtful when your kids are not appreciating you, but that could all change when they see Dad for who he is. For now, I hope you are in therapy. Also, I think seeing a nutritionist and working out would make you feel great. I'm prone to depression and working out really helps me. I hate doing it...lol...but I do it to make myself feel better. It's time for YOU to take care of YOU. You are NOT a failure or a bad person and your kids are wrong. They just are. Unfortunately, they both have poor dispositions. A therapist can help you deal with them too. Forget the kid's therapist w ho blames you for everything. Not all therapists are good (I've seen enough). She/he is listening to ex/kids and therapists also come with their own baggage. Find somebody you can relate to who doesn't see anyone in your family. Have fun with your family and friends. Try to help your kids, if you can, but don't give up on yourself. I do have a question: If ex gives the kids beer, why can he see them? [/QUOTE]
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