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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 450333"><p>Hi MidwestMom,</p><p> Thanks for the Hugs! My daughter understands to a point about her dad. I put her on the phone to let her talk to him about him not wanting her to see her half brothers.(he decided at that point he wanted nothing to do with them because of their mom,he said it was her fault-it wasn't). So , she wanted to talk to him and see him. I said" here, talk to her,handed her the phone. At that point he said "he could not see her to talk to her because he had to work things out with his now 3rd wife, and that that was more important right now" thinking I was still on the phone. She was hurt. He got her brothers many times and not her. He would leave if we were fighting and tell her it was my fault. He also would cancel or not show up most of the time for parties,visitation. He always has to have his women,male drunk friends married or not around the kids, even when they wanted just daddy time. Her brothers told her that they have not seen their dad in over 4 years and he called them once.Again, blames the mom. He blames me to for his relationship with his other boys and what is wrong with our 2 kids. No therapy,the Pediatrician said" if the guy we saw said he was ok, than hes ok. If I HAD to come back in then we would talk "but was not happy with that. Since then, my son hasn't been in his 2/3 hr rages or violence. Ok, well today he hit me and the cage. I do feel like a failure, i have failed. Ok, the ex is an alcoholic which he denies. Isn't that when a person drinks daily,before work,after work? Brings the beer in the shower,in the car while driving...Only not drinking cause hes broke? He is almost always buzzed or drunk, drives that way. He gave one of his other boys alcohol when they were younger and says he will/has gave some to ours. Then says he was kidding and my kids claimed they haven't had any. But he keeps saying he will give them some and they want to try it. I have it in the court orders for him and his friends,and my friends or I can not drink around them or give them any. But, I don't trust him.Technacilly, parents can give their kids a little alcohol without getting into trouble from what I was told.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 450333"] Hi MidwestMom, Thanks for the Hugs! My daughter understands to a point about her dad. I put her on the phone to let her talk to him about him not wanting her to see her half brothers.(he decided at that point he wanted nothing to do with them because of their mom,he said it was her fault-it wasn't). So , she wanted to talk to him and see him. I said" here, talk to her,handed her the phone. At that point he said "he could not see her to talk to her because he had to work things out with his now 3rd wife, and that that was more important right now" thinking I was still on the phone. She was hurt. He got her brothers many times and not her. He would leave if we were fighting and tell her it was my fault. He also would cancel or not show up most of the time for parties,visitation. He always has to have his women,male drunk friends married or not around the kids, even when they wanted just daddy time. Her brothers told her that they have not seen their dad in over 4 years and he called them once.Again, blames the mom. He blames me to for his relationship with his other boys and what is wrong with our 2 kids. No therapy,the Pediatrician said" if the guy we saw said he was ok, than hes ok. If I HAD to come back in then we would talk "but was not happy with that. Since then, my son hasn't been in his 2/3 hr rages or violence. Ok, well today he hit me and the cage. I do feel like a failure, i have failed. Ok, the ex is an alcoholic which he denies. Isn't that when a person drinks daily,before work,after work? Brings the beer in the shower,in the car while driving...Only not drinking cause hes broke? He is almost always buzzed or drunk, drives that way. He gave one of his other boys alcohol when they were younger and says he will/has gave some to ours. Then says he was kidding and my kids claimed they haven't had any. But he keeps saying he will give them some and they want to try it. I have it in the court orders for him and his friends,and my friends or I can not drink around them or give them any. But, I don't trust him.Technacilly, parents can give their kids a little alcohol without getting into trouble from what I was told. [/QUOTE]
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