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<blockquote data-quote="AK0603" data-source="post: 35708" data-attributes="member: 3417"><p>If I move him again then I think that it will be much much worse. I understand what you are saying and my son is in NO way alone, and I do not feel he thinks that either.</p><p></p><p>My difficulty with the situation is that I am not a spanker, however, I was spanked and do not neccisarly feel spanking is something that never ever works...but this was too far. </p><p></p><p>I am not "scared" of my ex, but what I do not want to happen is for him to start keeping me "out of the loop/ with these things. Right now he tells me these things if he knew I called CPS on him, he would not and the social worker I spoke to earlier in Indiana does not feel anything will really happen over this except some interviewing and possibly some counseling or parenting classes.</p><p></p><p>I tried each and everything that ever psychiatrist, reg.doctor, therapists suggested, hours and hours of therapy, inpatient, outpatient, medications, family groups, school help. Just everything, when I grounded him he kicked me I was slapped I was hurt by him physically, he ran away from home and school. </p><p></p><p>I do think he is doing better at his father's house, he is behaving much better, his grades have improved alot too. So I do see improvement. If I saw no improvement he would come home with me even if this had not happened.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AK0603, post: 35708, member: 3417"] If I move him again then I think that it will be much much worse. I understand what you are saying and my son is in NO way alone, and I do not feel he thinks that either. My difficulty with the situation is that I am not a spanker, however, I was spanked and do not neccisarly feel spanking is something that never ever works...but this was too far. I am not "scared" of my ex, but what I do not want to happen is for him to start keeping me "out of the loop/ with these things. Right now he tells me these things if he knew I called CPS on him, he would not and the social worker I spoke to earlier in Indiana does not feel anything will really happen over this except some interviewing and possibly some counseling or parenting classes. I tried each and everything that ever psychiatrist, reg.doctor, therapists suggested, hours and hours of therapy, inpatient, outpatient, medications, family groups, school help. Just everything, when I grounded him he kicked me I was slapped I was hurt by him physically, he ran away from home and school. I do think he is doing better at his father's house, he is behaving much better, his grades have improved alot too. So I do see improvement. If I saw no improvement he would come home with me even if this had not happened. [/QUOTE]
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