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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 230049" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>BRAN155..This daughter has been so difficult. My heart goes out to you. I think your best bet is to go to court. Her lack of compliance to treatment and the fact that she is out of parental control it is in your best interest to let the judge know that you are unable to facilitate her developement as she defies parental authority.</p><p> mania and lack of impulse control...BiPolar (BP)/adhd...are extremely toxic untreated and uncontroled. my adhd son has said that it is "to hard" to talk and follow instruction when untreated at times. He is far more compliant than what you are discribing and a large part of that is the power she is finding in her sexual pursuits and the matings. </p><p>My quess is this also includes not attending school or pursuing a legal job of any type. </p><p>Hopefully the judge will require her to do something meaningful with her time under conditions that require her to discover having an ability to tolerate the mundane aspects of life: regular schedule, participating in chores, and spending many hours of each day at some activity to learn and contribute.</p><p>Definately would not let her return to your home and would ask that she recieve the psyciatiric treatments for her mental illnes and the training she has lost out on by not participating meaningfully during this period of deliquency. </p><p>REcall that these people who have been taking in a underage runaway are contributing to deliquency of a minor, and that these people are engaging in parental interferance by taking a minor into their homes.</p><p>That her example and behavior is disruptive and creates a unsuitable environment for your household...I recall she assaulted you at one point. All these show being a danger to herself and to others. Unless and untill she is controlled medically and also has devoted herself to learning she is not safe.</p><p>I am in general conserned for young mentally ill women who are prey to the proclivities of others and easily mislead by their sex drive and lack of impulse control. I would say to the judge that emancipation would not be appropriate without a full understanding.</p><p>CAn you get ssidi for her and get her into a full time residential treatment? EIther after jail time or as a transsitional program toward some type of monitored indepentant living?</p><p>Hang in there. I am so glade, personally, you have such candor as you are an inspiration for me on this journey. </p><p>Do something fun with the 7 year old today and everyday. </p><p>ANd you did the right thing by not letting her talk to her brother. Be the parent and set boundaries. Protect the young one. And yourself, too. SHe can chose to take the treatements and behave. It is her habit and preferance to be the drama center.</p><p>Yes, BiPolar (BP) and impulse are so oblivious. That is so. And as much as a sacrifice she may feel it is to be "bored" by the far less stymulated level that the world shared with others does require it is something she to "can do".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 230049, member: 6271"] BRAN155..This daughter has been so difficult. My heart goes out to you. I think your best bet is to go to court. Her lack of compliance to treatment and the fact that she is out of parental control it is in your best interest to let the judge know that you are unable to facilitate her developement as she defies parental authority. mania and lack of impulse control...BiPolar (BP)/adhd...are extremely toxic untreated and uncontroled. my adhd son has said that it is "to hard" to talk and follow instruction when untreated at times. He is far more compliant than what you are discribing and a large part of that is the power she is finding in her sexual pursuits and the matings. My quess is this also includes not attending school or pursuing a legal job of any type. Hopefully the judge will require her to do something meaningful with her time under conditions that require her to discover having an ability to tolerate the mundane aspects of life: regular schedule, participating in chores, and spending many hours of each day at some activity to learn and contribute. Definately would not let her return to your home and would ask that she recieve the psyciatiric treatments for her mental illnes and the training she has lost out on by not participating meaningfully during this period of deliquency. REcall that these people who have been taking in a underage runaway are contributing to deliquency of a minor, and that these people are engaging in parental interferance by taking a minor into their homes. That her example and behavior is disruptive and creates a unsuitable environment for your household...I recall she assaulted you at one point. All these show being a danger to herself and to others. Unless and untill she is controlled medically and also has devoted herself to learning she is not safe. I am in general conserned for young mentally ill women who are prey to the proclivities of others and easily mislead by their sex drive and lack of impulse control. I would say to the judge that emancipation would not be appropriate without a full understanding. CAn you get ssidi for her and get her into a full time residential treatment? EIther after jail time or as a transsitional program toward some type of monitored indepentant living? Hang in there. I am so glade, personally, you have such candor as you are an inspiration for me on this journey. Do something fun with the 7 year old today and everyday. ANd you did the right thing by not letting her talk to her brother. Be the parent and set boundaries. Protect the young one. And yourself, too. SHe can chose to take the treatements and behave. It is her habit and preferance to be the drama center. Yes, BiPolar (BP) and impulse are so oblivious. That is so. And as much as a sacrifice she may feel it is to be "bored" by the far less stymulated level that the world shared with others does require it is something she to "can do". [/QUOTE]
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