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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 230390"><p>I went to court and sat there from 9:15 am until 1:15 and that's when they told me my daughter won't be seen until after 3pm!!!!!!!!!!!!! The legal aid attorneys don't come in until 2:30pm on Tuesdays!!!!! Information that would have been beneficial to me before one o'clock in the afternoon!!!! I am so beyond aggrevated!!!! My sw had to leave so I will be going back to court alone. At this point I am just frustrated, I don't even want to go back!!! But I am.</p><p></p><p>Marg & Meowbunny:</p><p></p><p>First let me say thank you for your concern. It is much appreciated. I absolutely do not believe anything my daughter tells me!!! The fight might have happened that way and might not have. I tend to think my daughter was not the one who initiated it, not because she said so, but because she didn't get any consequences for it. Other than that I believe my daughter is lying as soon as her mouth opens!!!! I do not think she has made any progress whatsoever. Just because she takes some of the blame for what has been happening doesn't mean anything to me. A. She is not stable and B. That will all change once something goes wrong for her or she doesn't get her way. I know she is just manipulating, or trying to anyway, me right now because she is in Jail and needs me. I can see right through her. It is nice to be able to have a decent conversation with her, yet I take that with a grain of salt. It was just for the moment. One week in jail did not change anything about her. If she was to come home right now not a darn thing would be any different!!! Her abuse would begin immediately!!! </p><p></p><p>You are right Meowbunny, I would have gone to court no matter what. I am glad that you pointed that out though because I though about that after I posted. It sounds as if I was seeking approval. On some level I probably was. But believe me, I would have gone to court no matter what anyone said. I didn't want to go because I want my daughter to know that I am just so done with all of this craziness. I did want to go because I felt it was my responsibility as her mother. Like Marg said, I don't want the court to view my daughter as just some neglected kid on the run causing havoc. I want them to know that she is someone who is loved and supported. So I will drink my coffee and take my butt back to the courthouse and wait some more!!! Oh, joy. I will let you know what happens when I get back.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again.</p><p></p><p>Shawna <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>p.s. I hope you are holding up okay Meowbunny!!! I agree, not every baby is a blessing!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 230390"] I went to court and sat there from 9:15 am until 1:15 and that's when they told me my daughter won't be seen until after 3pm!!!!!!!!!!!!! The legal aid attorneys don't come in until 2:30pm on Tuesdays!!!!! Information that would have been beneficial to me before one o'clock in the afternoon!!!! I am so beyond aggrevated!!!! My sw had to leave so I will be going back to court alone. At this point I am just frustrated, I don't even want to go back!!! But I am. Marg & Meowbunny: First let me say thank you for your concern. It is much appreciated. I absolutely do not believe anything my daughter tells me!!! The fight might have happened that way and might not have. I tend to think my daughter was not the one who initiated it, not because she said so, but because she didn't get any consequences for it. Other than that I believe my daughter is lying as soon as her mouth opens!!!! I do not think she has made any progress whatsoever. Just because she takes some of the blame for what has been happening doesn't mean anything to me. A. She is not stable and B. That will all change once something goes wrong for her or she doesn't get her way. I know she is just manipulating, or trying to anyway, me right now because she is in Jail and needs me. I can see right through her. It is nice to be able to have a decent conversation with her, yet I take that with a grain of salt. It was just for the moment. One week in jail did not change anything about her. If she was to come home right now not a darn thing would be any different!!! Her abuse would begin immediately!!! You are right Meowbunny, I would have gone to court no matter what. I am glad that you pointed that out though because I though about that after I posted. It sounds as if I was seeking approval. On some level I probably was. But believe me, I would have gone to court no matter what anyone said. I didn't want to go because I want my daughter to know that I am just so done with all of this craziness. I did want to go because I felt it was my responsibility as her mother. Like Marg said, I don't want the court to view my daughter as just some neglected kid on the run causing havoc. I want them to know that she is someone who is loved and supported. So I will drink my coffee and take my butt back to the courthouse and wait some more!!! Oh, joy. I will let you know what happens when I get back. Thanks again. Shawna :) p.s. I hope you are holding up okay Meowbunny!!! I agree, not every baby is a blessing!!!! [/QUOTE]
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