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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 596546" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>Personally I think you need to call her father and let him know in three weeks she will be on his doorstep or you will be contacting the law for support with her. She is larger than you, she is mean to you, she is physical with you, she refuses to respect you, she refuses to respect anyone else and she is beyond control. Physically and mentally you can't handle this forever. His option of taking the "easy" child and refusing to help with the "difficult" one is a **** poor excuse! He donated sperm he needs to donate some effort as well.</p><p></p><p>Contact the courts and see if you can get a "beyond control" order put in place. It is basically a contract between the child, parent and the courts that if she doesn't do the things you/courts require then she pays the price. The price could be picking up trash or much worse depending on how far she pushes it. </p><p></p><p>You have done everything you can on your own. It is time to call in the big guns! If that is dad fine, if it is the courts fine, if it is the police fine. She has had plenty of chances to change and she has received all the medical care needed so she has no more excuses. She is basically abusing you at this point. Using your fear of her failing against you and using your fear of her medical issues to play you. </p><p></p><p>You need to put an end to her games and let her know you aren't playing anymore!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 596546, member: 15473"] Personally I think you need to call her father and let him know in three weeks she will be on his doorstep or you will be contacting the law for support with her. She is larger than you, she is mean to you, she is physical with you, she refuses to respect you, she refuses to respect anyone else and she is beyond control. Physically and mentally you can't handle this forever. His option of taking the "easy" child and refusing to help with the "difficult" one is a **** poor excuse! He donated sperm he needs to donate some effort as well. Contact the courts and see if you can get a "beyond control" order put in place. It is basically a contract between the child, parent and the courts that if she doesn't do the things you/courts require then she pays the price. The price could be picking up trash or much worse depending on how far she pushes it. You have done everything you can on your own. It is time to call in the big guns! If that is dad fine, if it is the courts fine, if it is the police fine. She has had plenty of chances to change and she has received all the medical care needed so she has no more excuses. She is basically abusing you at this point. Using your fear of her failing against you and using your fear of her medical issues to play you. You need to put an end to her games and let her know you aren't playing anymore! [/QUOTE]
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