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<blockquote data-quote="dstc_99" data-source="post: 596726" data-attributes="member: 15473"><p>OK so your ex is useless I get that and she trys to take the phone if you threaten to call for help. Why are you telling her your going to call? Set clear guidelines beforehand something like I will ask you twice to get out of bed if after the second time you aren't out of bed within 5 minutes then I will call the police to escort you to school. She wont believe you and will figure she can bully you out of it. After 5 minutes walk outside on the deck or into a hallway and make the call. Don't let her know why you are walking outside and don't threaten her that way she doesn't have time to physically threaten you. If you feel the need to be protected walk in to the bathroom and lock the door then make the call. That way you are safe and she is forced to go to school.</p><p></p><p>If the police don't escort her to school then go and get the behavior contract with the courts. If she continues the **** they can handle it and after you file the report the consequences are completely outside your control. The only thing she can blame you for is filing it what happens after that is all on her. They aren't going to buy her bull! They are going to confirm with the school whether she attends and they are going to confirm with you if she is obeying the rules and then they are going to supply her with a punishment if needed. </p><p></p><p>You have been letting her push you around way too long! It is time for you to have some help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dstc_99, post: 596726, member: 15473"] OK so your ex is useless I get that and she trys to take the phone if you threaten to call for help. Why are you telling her your going to call? Set clear guidelines beforehand something like I will ask you twice to get out of bed if after the second time you aren't out of bed within 5 minutes then I will call the police to escort you to school. She wont believe you and will figure she can bully you out of it. After 5 minutes walk outside on the deck or into a hallway and make the call. Don't let her know why you are walking outside and don't threaten her that way she doesn't have time to physically threaten you. If you feel the need to be protected walk in to the bathroom and lock the door then make the call. That way you are safe and she is forced to go to school. If the police don't escort her to school then go and get the behavior contract with the courts. If she continues the **** they can handle it and after you file the report the consequences are completely outside your control. The only thing she can blame you for is filing it what happens after that is all on her. They aren't going to buy her bull! They are going to confirm with the school whether she attends and they are going to confirm with you if she is obeying the rules and then they are going to supply her with a punishment if needed. You have been letting her push you around way too long! It is time for you to have some help. [/QUOTE]
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