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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 356380" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thankfully, with the GAL no longer being used by this court I was able tell PO and def attny more freely that due to all difficult child was doing at home and the blame I was getting and the way things were handled, I have a lot of excess baggage toward the people over there but I made it clear to PO that it was nothing against him because obviously, he wasn't even involved then. I think that has made it easier for him to realize that sometimes I just need a little reassurance from him that he isn't handling things that way. And I think hee does see that I am a fit parent who really is trying to do what is in difficult child's best interest long-term. That has made it easier for me to tell him more specifics about how things are going at home so he is better infromed than the probation officer was- buut she didn't "get it" anyway and seemed to just use any information against us. This PO has told me a few times that difficult child's trouble is not my fault - that he thinks I've handled things appropriately. So, little by little, the coommuinication gets better and I think that is allowing each of us to work with difficult child better. Now, if we can just get and keep difficult child on board!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 356380, member: 3699"] Thankfully, with the GAL no longer being used by this court I was able tell PO and def attny more freely that due to all difficult child was doing at home and the blame I was getting and the way things were handled, I have a lot of excess baggage toward the people over there but I made it clear to PO that it was nothing against him because obviously, he wasn't even involved then. I think that has made it easier for him to realize that sometimes I just need a little reassurance from him that he isn't handling things that way. And I think hee does see that I am a fit parent who really is trying to do what is in difficult child's best interest long-term. That has made it easier for me to tell him more specifics about how things are going at home so he is better infromed than the probation officer was- buut she didn't "get it" anyway and seemed to just use any information against us. This PO has told me a few times that difficult child's trouble is not my fault - that he thinks I've handled things appropriately. So, little by little, the coommuinication gets better and I think that is allowing each of us to work with difficult child better. Now, if we can just get and keep difficult child on board!! [/QUOTE]
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