Hello, I am new to the forum. I am a frustrated mom in need of some advice from people who understand. I have a 4 year old son who is very hard to handle. I just had an arguement with him over how his chocolate milk was stirred! I made him some chocolate milk then asked if I could have a drink. He said yes very sweetly then noticed (how I'll never know) that I had stirred it a little with the straw and went into meltdown mode. The milk was no longer drinkable and he screamed for 10 minutes until my husband grabbled him and made him lay down for a nap! We had gone out for some taco bell earlier and when we got home he insisted that I carry him in from the car. My hands were full and I couldn't carry him so he sat in the car and screamed until I came out and carried him in. I probably shouldn't have come back out for him but it is hot and I worried about him sitting out there by himself. These episodes are daily and my presence seem to intensify them. I don't know if he is spoiled or has some type of dissorder. My in laws seem to think I spoil him and his behavior is a result of that. Mabye it is me I just don't know. Advice?