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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 311393" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Steely I recall there being a good reason Matt is in this particular program......but darn brain injury won't surface it for me.<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/ashamed.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":ashamed:" title="ashamed :ashamed:" data-shortname=":ashamed:" /> Is there any reason you can't start looking for a different program? Ok, so I know this one is supposed to be super good. But even if a shoe is super good, if it doesn't fit, it just doesn't fit no way to make it. I have an issue with any program not listening to the one person who knows their patient the best. I don't care if they believe you to be over involved or not. You're still his mother and you know him in a way they never can. I also have an issue with any program or professionals who can't admit they made a mistake, back up and regroup and make a new plan. Matt needs a new plan. They pushed him too hard and too fast and he bolted. Obviously he wasn't as ready to do the things they thought he should be capable of doing. Good program or not.........the way they did some things have never sat well with me. And c'mon, if your patient is getting worse......you're obviously not doing something right......so take a good look at what you're doing.<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite4" alt=":mad:" title="Mad :mad:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":mad:" /></p><p> </p><p>You and Matt have been thru so darned (want to use a much stronger word here) much and he was doing so well for a longish time......this just burns me up. True you don't want to interfere with the actual treatment, but it also is your responsibility to look out for his best interest. And I think those 2 things are a huge conflict right now for you.</p><p> </p><p>I'm praying hard for both you and Matt. I've stood on those tracks and know how it feels. </p><p> </p><p>((((hugs))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 311393, member: 84"] Steely I recall there being a good reason Matt is in this particular program......but darn brain injury won't surface it for me.:ashamed: Is there any reason you can't start looking for a different program? Ok, so I know this one is supposed to be super good. But even if a shoe is super good, if it doesn't fit, it just doesn't fit no way to make it. I have an issue with any program not listening to the one person who knows their patient the best. I don't care if they believe you to be over involved or not. You're still his mother and you know him in a way they never can. I also have an issue with any program or professionals who can't admit they made a mistake, back up and regroup and make a new plan. Matt needs a new plan. They pushed him too hard and too fast and he bolted. Obviously he wasn't as ready to do the things they thought he should be capable of doing. Good program or not.........the way they did some things have never sat well with me. And c'mon, if your patient is getting worse......you're obviously not doing something right......so take a good look at what you're doing.:angry: You and Matt have been thru so darned (want to use a much stronger word here) much and he was doing so well for a longish time......this just burns me up. True you don't want to interfere with the actual treatment, but it also is your responsibility to look out for his best interest. And I think those 2 things are a huge conflict right now for you. I'm praying hard for both you and Matt. I've stood on those tracks and know how it feels. ((((hugs)))) [/QUOTE]
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