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Stands - a little bird told me.....
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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 274048" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>I would print this out several times and post it around the house as a reminder that difficult child is not interested in what you say to him or what you do for him. It is wasted effort and wasted breath.</p><p> </p><p>What this translates to is shutting him down completely. You've heard these recommendations from us many times. We can't make you follow this advice and change any more than you can make your difficult child change. </p><p> </p><p>It's nothing personal, it's simply fact. </p><p> </p><p>No one changes until they want to and are willing to make the effort. </p><p> </p><p>When you are ready to let go you will, and not one second before that. </p><p> </p><p>And when your difficult child is ready to change he will, and not one second before that.</p><p> </p><p>What plans do you have for summer to keep yourself occupied and happy and difficult child-free?</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 274048, member: 29"] I would print this out several times and post it around the house as a reminder that difficult child is not interested in what you say to him or what you do for him. It is wasted effort and wasted breath. What this translates to is shutting him down completely. You've heard these recommendations from us many times. We can't make you follow this advice and change any more than you can make your difficult child change. It's nothing personal, it's simply fact. No one changes until they want to and are willing to make the effort. When you are ready to let go you will, and not one second before that. And when your difficult child is ready to change he will, and not one second before that. What plans do you have for summer to keep yourself occupied and happy and difficult child-free? Suz [/QUOTE]
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