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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 274286" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>No, Susan. <u>All of the time</u> you need to <u>not say anything like that</u>. You want to set him free of drugs? There is no way. In all of our lives for all of us, only <em>you</em> can set yourself free, only <em>I</em> can set myself free, only <em>Suz</em> can set Suz free, <span style="color: Navy"><em>only your difficult child can set himself free.</em></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><em></em></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><em></em><span style="color: Black">And in all of those cases, and for everyone else in the world, you can only think about how to set yourself free from your own demons. <em>His</em> demon isn't a demon to you, <em>you</em> can walk away from it any day. <em>He</em> likes his demon and wants to stay, so there's no setting himself free yet, and you can't set him free.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="color: Black"></span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="color: Black">Find your <em>own</em> demon, Susan. The Co-dependency demon, and decide whether you want to stop. If you do, set yourself free. Because that co-dependency demon is buddies with his drug addiction demon and maybe his demon won't be as strong if you aren't involved with your demon anymore.</span></span></p><p><span style="color: Navy"><span style="color: Black"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 274286, member: 99"] No, Susan. [U]All of the time[/U] you need to [U]not say anything like that[/U]. You want to set him free of drugs? There is no way. In all of our lives for all of us, only [I]you[/I] can set yourself free, only [I]I[/I] can set myself free, only [I]Suz[/I] can set Suz free, [COLOR=Navy][I]only your difficult child can set himself free. [/I][COLOR=Black]And in all of those cases, and for everyone else in the world, you can only think about how to set yourself free from your own demons. [I]His[/I] demon isn't a demon to you, [I]you[/I] can walk away from it any day. [I]He[/I] likes his demon and wants to stay, so there's no setting himself free yet, and you can't set him free. Find your [I]own[/I] demon, Susan. The Co-dependency demon, and decide whether you want to stop. If you do, set yourself free. Because that co-dependency demon is buddies with his drug addiction demon and maybe his demon won't be as strong if you aren't involved with your demon anymore. [/COLOR][/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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