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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 148597" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>WHAT A TOTAL #*$&)(@_!)(+# WO$#U#*_#)$_)@ </p><p> </p><p>Got a call from the caseworker who needed directions (moments ago) to the "court house"????????? </p><p> </p><p>Um - NO====you are going to PROBATION AND PAROLE - in the DSS building down the road. </p><p> </p><p>Caseworker: Um Then why did I talk to the solicitor yesterday?</p><p> </p><p>Me: WHAT IN THE BLUE MOON are you talking to the solicitor for??? </p><p> </p><p>Him: Well I wanted to find out where we were in these charges.</p><p> </p><p>me: blink, blink......(pause)....>>>>WHAT???? </p><p> </p><p>him: The charges for tomorrow. </p><p> </p><p>me: SLAP FACE.......NO NO NO......THIS IS FOR PROBATION TODAY - AT THE PROBATION OFFICE - to get his PO changed to a local one so we can stop taking the day off, to drive 180 miles and sit all day - and get a local PO, plus he OWES probation FEES.....$250+ PLUS</p><p> </p><p>Him: OH - Okay I'm going to get this straightened out. </p><p> </p><p>me: There is nothing to straighten out. He owes, he pays - they see him in a month. I paid his fines up before to keep him out of jail....and they never put it in the computer so they issued a hearing. And in the mean time - he is BEHIND for the months that I caught him up TO - in other words since he's been at the foster family. But he won't do chores. He figures why bother - he's going to jail for 15 years anyway. What kid with his mental capacity wouldn't think that way? So if there is something to be DONE today - GO TALK TO THE PUBLIC DEFENDER AND GET HER TO HAVE THOSE BOGUS CHARGES dismissed - and tell HER that he's getting more care than a jail can give, and that YES HE DOES HAVE A MENTAL PROBLEM - </p><p> </p><p>me: Shakes head, sighs, exhales.....and thinks - YET THEY are the ones with degrees.......and making the BIG bucks.???? </p><p> </p><p>Caseworker - "Well I can't get anyone to call me back." </p><p> </p><p>me: I said "If I put you on hold, and called there RIGHT NOW - I would get her." </p><p> </p><p>URGE TO CHOKE A HUMAN AT 7:30AM...overwhelming</p><p>Child who's PO told him "This is all in your mind Dude." Unbelievable</p><p>Having your sons caseworker not know what is going on? PRICELESS </p><p> </p><p>I do know from the psychiatrist that Dude is so hyperfocused on going to jail for 15 years - he's struggling to NOT develop a WHO CARES attitude. Which is so difficult child - defeatist attitude - with his limited coping skills - who wouldn't? </p><p> </p><p>But - I guess I will hear about this - sometime. After all I'm only the Mom. Why would I need to know? </p><p> </p><p>-Why would ANYONE in their right mind Want TO KNOW? </p><p> </p><p>-oH THAT'S RIGHT i AM NOT IN MY RIGHT MIND. </p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 148597, member: 4964"] WHAT A TOTAL #*$&)(@_!)(+# WO$#U#*_#)$_)@ Got a call from the caseworker who needed directions (moments ago) to the "court house"????????? Um - NO====you are going to PROBATION AND PAROLE - in the DSS building down the road. Caseworker: Um Then why did I talk to the solicitor yesterday? Me: WHAT IN THE BLUE MOON are you talking to the solicitor for??? Him: Well I wanted to find out where we were in these charges. me: blink, blink......(pause)....>>>>WHAT???? him: The charges for tomorrow. me: SLAP FACE.......NO NO NO......THIS IS FOR PROBATION TODAY - AT THE PROBATION OFFICE - to get his PO changed to a local one so we can stop taking the day off, to drive 180 miles and sit all day - and get a local PO, plus he OWES probation FEES.....$250+ PLUS Him: OH - Okay I'm going to get this straightened out. me: There is nothing to straighten out. He owes, he pays - they see him in a month. I paid his fines up before to keep him out of jail....and they never put it in the computer so they issued a hearing. And in the mean time - he is BEHIND for the months that I caught him up TO - in other words since he's been at the foster family. But he won't do chores. He figures why bother - he's going to jail for 15 years anyway. What kid with his mental capacity wouldn't think that way? So if there is something to be DONE today - GO TALK TO THE PUBLIC DEFENDER AND GET HER TO HAVE THOSE BOGUS CHARGES dismissed - and tell HER that he's getting more care than a jail can give, and that YES HE DOES HAVE A MENTAL PROBLEM - me: Shakes head, sighs, exhales.....and thinks - YET THEY are the ones with degrees.......and making the BIG bucks.???? Caseworker - "Well I can't get anyone to call me back." me: I said "If I put you on hold, and called there RIGHT NOW - I would get her." URGE TO CHOKE A HUMAN AT 7:30AM...overwhelming Child who's PO told him "This is all in your mind Dude." Unbelievable Having your sons caseworker not know what is going on? PRICELESS I do know from the psychiatrist that Dude is so hyperfocused on going to jail for 15 years - he's struggling to NOT develop a WHO CARES attitude. Which is so difficult child - defeatist attitude - with his limited coping skills - who wouldn't? But - I guess I will hear about this - sometime. After all I'm only the Mom. Why would I need to know? -Why would ANYONE in their right mind Want TO KNOW? -oH THAT'S RIGHT i AM NOT IN MY RIGHT MIND. :knockedout: [/QUOTE]
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