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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 359648" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thanks, Shari. It just feels like I'm being kicked while I'm already feeling beaten and blaming myself when they sit in court and blame me - how can I better teach my son to be responsible when the higher ups in the system are sitting there in front of him saying it's my fault and there's something psychiatric wrrong with me for not seeing it? And if there was something specific they were seeing me do that I should change, why not just tell me what that is? Wouldn't that be more constructive and effective? Then if I refused to change it, fine, I can see that warranting being chastised but if they have some answer that I don't, why aren't they telling me what that is?</p><p></p><p>Anyway...they just called from detention to tell me difficult child had been processed in, he had burn marks on both arms but no where else. He is sick with a cold. Then difficult child got to talk on the phone for a min and all he wanted to know was why I didn't tell him they were going to come and get him and was I coming to the next visitation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 359648, member: 3699"] Thanks, Shari. It just feels like I'm being kicked while I'm already feeling beaten and blaming myself when they sit in court and blame me - how can I better teach my son to be responsible when the higher ups in the system are sitting there in front of him saying it's my fault and there's something psychiatric wrrong with me for not seeing it? And if there was something specific they were seeing me do that I should change, why not just tell me what that is? Wouldn't that be more constructive and effective? Then if I refused to change it, fine, I can see that warranting being chastised but if they have some answer that I don't, why aren't they telling me what that is? Anyway...they just called from detention to tell me difficult child had been processed in, he had burn marks on both arms but no where else. He is sick with a cold. Then difficult child got to talk on the phone for a min and all he wanted to know was why I didn't tell him they were going to come and get him and was I coming to the next visitation. [/QUOTE]
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