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<blockquote data-quote="JKF" data-source="post: 567157" data-attributes="member: 12470"><p>Ok - so I looked at the online court docket system to see if there was any new info about difficult child. It says his bail has been changed from monetary to unsecured - still $10,000 - and that he has a formal arraignment date of 12/31/12. It says "Waived for Court" and also that difficult child "Waived Preliminary Hearing". It also says "confinement date ends 12/7/12". I guess that means he's getting out of jail today on this unsecured bail until his court date?? I'm so confused! Uggggh!</p><p></p><p> I haven't spoken to the mental health liaison yet. Not sure if they helped him with the whole unsecured bail issue. I think so though. They offer supervised pretrial services which helps inmates like him get out until their court date. I'm stressed bc I don't know what difficult child will do once he's out and what's going to happen next. I called the shelter just now and the director will have a bed waiting for him tonight if he goes there. Not sure what the conditions of his release are but I do know he can't come home and if he does come back to NJ before court I have a feeling he'll never go back to PA willingly to face his charges.</p><p></p><p>I also spoke to his case worker at the CMO here in NJ before and he so kindly told me that they are closing difficult child's case and he will no longer have services through them. He said that because they haven't seen difficult child face to face they can't keep his case open. The CM worker was so smug about it too. I could just picture his face and I wanted to punch him through the phone. Sorry I'm not a violent person but it's been that kind of day! </p><p></p><p>So ok - head is spinning, heart is pounding, trying to breathe. I trying to be calm though. I keep reminding myself I can't control this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JKF, post: 567157, member: 12470"] Ok - so I looked at the online court docket system to see if there was any new info about difficult child. It says his bail has been changed from monetary to unsecured - still $10,000 - and that he has a formal arraignment date of 12/31/12. It says "Waived for Court" and also that difficult child "Waived Preliminary Hearing". It also says "confinement date ends 12/7/12". I guess that means he's getting out of jail today on this unsecured bail until his court date?? I'm so confused! Uggggh! I haven't spoken to the mental health liaison yet. Not sure if they helped him with the whole unsecured bail issue. I think so though. They offer supervised pretrial services which helps inmates like him get out until their court date. I'm stressed bc I don't know what difficult child will do once he's out and what's going to happen next. I called the shelter just now and the director will have a bed waiting for him tonight if he goes there. Not sure what the conditions of his release are but I do know he can't come home and if he does come back to NJ before court I have a feeling he'll never go back to PA willingly to face his charges. I also spoke to his case worker at the CMO here in NJ before and he so kindly told me that they are closing difficult child's case and he will no longer have services through them. He said that because they haven't seen difficult child face to face they can't keep his case open. The CM worker was so smug about it too. I could just picture his face and I wanted to punch him through the phone. Sorry I'm not a violent person but it's been that kind of day! So ok - head is spinning, heart is pounding, trying to breathe. I trying to be calm though. I keep reminding myself I can't control this. [/QUOTE]
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