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Stealing and lying and whatnot oh my
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<blockquote data-quote="nlj" data-source="post: 667853" data-attributes="member: 17650"><p>Hi Sad Mum. (I'm a 'mum' too, rather than a 'mom' <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> )</p><p></p><p>Detachment is more about detaching in your head, rather than physically detaching. You could live in the same house as your difficult child and still be detached. I visit my son, but I have detached from his life choices.</p><p></p><p>A big part of detachment is accepting the life your child is living and not trying to 'fix' it any more. They have to fix it themselves, in their own way.</p><p></p><p>I love my son and allow him to make his own choices and deal with his own consequences.</p><p></p><p>I would delete the facebook account. It's a load of rubbish. Use the time you waste on facebook to do something pleasant for yourself.</p><p></p><p>We 'get it' here. </p><p></p><p>One step at a time. </p><p></p><p>Keep posting.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nlj, post: 667853, member: 17650"] Hi Sad Mum. (I'm a 'mum' too, rather than a 'mom' :) ) Detachment is more about detaching in your head, rather than physically detaching. You could live in the same house as your difficult child and still be detached. I visit my son, but I have detached from his life choices. A big part of detachment is accepting the life your child is living and not trying to 'fix' it any more. They have to fix it themselves, in their own way. I love my son and allow him to make his own choices and deal with his own consequences. I would delete the facebook account. It's a load of rubbish. Use the time you waste on facebook to do something pleasant for yourself. We 'get it' here. One step at a time. Keep posting. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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