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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 579424" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>welcome!</p><p></p><p>I think you also need to consult your own attorney about custody and grandparents' rights. Find a SHARK, often divorce attorneys know ALL the loopholes and twists. IF the judge truly is a family friend of the father's family, get it proven and get him off the case, it is unethical for him to rule on this case and he can lose his license to practice law AND his job. It is a HUGE thing for the judge to even know any party in a case, of course it happens, but they are supposed to say so up front, on the record. If you find a shark, they can tell you how best to handle this if it is true.</p><p></p><p>Then you need to establish legally that daughter and babydaddy are addicts. Then once you STOP enabling and supporting your daughter's lifestyle, and have been in therapy a while, you can prove you are the best home for the child. Of course you need to follow the lawyer's advice on this. </p><p></p><p>Google your state and 'grandparent's rights'. They are quirky and not all states have defined them. If you are in a state that has, and is liberal with them, it could be your ace in the hole and really establish your ties to grandson that no one can break. In my state, as long as the parents are married, the grands have no rights. But if at ANY time since the child was born, the parents were not married, then the grandparents have some legal resources if they are told they cannot see the grandkids. Each state is different so check yours. In my state, you would have some very defined, unbreakable except by abuse, legal rights.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 579424, member: 1233"] welcome! I think you also need to consult your own attorney about custody and grandparents' rights. Find a SHARK, often divorce attorneys know ALL the loopholes and twists. IF the judge truly is a family friend of the father's family, get it proven and get him off the case, it is unethical for him to rule on this case and he can lose his license to practice law AND his job. It is a HUGE thing for the judge to even know any party in a case, of course it happens, but they are supposed to say so up front, on the record. If you find a shark, they can tell you how best to handle this if it is true. Then you need to establish legally that daughter and babydaddy are addicts. Then once you STOP enabling and supporting your daughter's lifestyle, and have been in therapy a while, you can prove you are the best home for the child. Of course you need to follow the lawyer's advice on this. Google your state and 'grandparent's rights'. They are quirky and not all states have defined them. If you are in a state that has, and is liberal with them, it could be your ace in the hole and really establish your ties to grandson that no one can break. In my state, as long as the parents are married, the grands have no rights. But if at ANY time since the child was born, the parents were not married, then the grandparents have some legal resources if they are told they cannot see the grandkids. Each state is different so check yours. In my state, you would have some very defined, unbreakable except by abuse, legal rights. [/QUOTE]
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