Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Stealng & lying (brand new member)
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 393097" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>Stealing and lying are usually signs that a kid has poor coping skills and consequences or rewards don't teach skills , in any case kids would prefer to do well if they could.</p><p>I would frame any situation as an objective problem to be solved taking out of the picture blame or being mad at the kid . We don't need to get the kid to admit things - just objectively and in a neutral tone say we have a problem to fix . The way to go is to focus on connection, general chatting , perpective taking, working through the Collaborative problem solving sites - especially the videos , skills check list </p><p></p><p>AllanKatz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 393097, member: 10"] Hi, Stealing and lying are usually signs that a kid has poor coping skills and consequences or rewards don't teach skills , in any case kids would prefer to do well if they could. I would frame any situation as an objective problem to be solved taking out of the picture blame or being mad at the kid . We don't need to get the kid to admit things - just objectively and in a neutral tone say we have a problem to fix . The way to go is to focus on connection, general chatting , perpective taking, working through the Collaborative problem solving sites - especially the videos , skills check list AllanKatz [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
General Parenting
Stealng & lying (brand new member)
Top