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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 359020" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I think I'm looking at it like waving the white flag would be just let them give whatever consequences they want. Taking the test won't solve anything and neither would doing any treatment they order. They are so convinced that if the previous GAL concluded something she must have had good reason that they can't see any further than that. It doesn't matter if anything is there to support that conclusion or not. I will never see a minute's peace as long as difficult child is living with me. I cannmot control what someone else thinks and this test would not prove otherwise- I could almost guarantee that if it came back and didn't show what they wanted it to they would conclude I wasn't honest on it. Seriously- they are that convinced.</p><p></p><p>You remember- last year in court the GAL told the judge if difficult child went to Residential Treatment Center (RTC) they couldn't trust me not to pull him out. Well, it was dumb to conclude that because 1) I had never pulled difficult child out of any thing before- although I had switched tdocs for him with good reason but I didn't stop therapy for him, 2) I was the one supporting the idea of Residential Treatment Center (RTC) so why would I pull him out, and most importantly 3) if it was court ordered I would not have been able to puull him out- a secure Residential Treatment Center (RTC) would not have let me just come and get him. Did anyone think about these things? NO. They just automatically went with the conclusion the GAL said. The GAL recommended Department of Juvenile Justice when the plan to send difficult child home with no punishment didn't work then she immediately went to difficult child after court and told him it was my fault. I'm not sayi ng these people are out to get me- I'm saying they are so set on this in their minds that they cannot be objective or see anything that they don't feel confirms what they believe already.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 359020, member: 3699"] I think I'm looking at it like waving the white flag would be just let them give whatever consequences they want. Taking the test won't solve anything and neither would doing any treatment they order. They are so convinced that if the previous GAL concluded something she must have had good reason that they can't see any further than that. It doesn't matter if anything is there to support that conclusion or not. I will never see a minute's peace as long as difficult child is living with me. I cannmot control what someone else thinks and this test would not prove otherwise- I could almost guarantee that if it came back and didn't show what they wanted it to they would conclude I wasn't honest on it. Seriously- they are that convinced. You remember- last year in court the GAL told the judge if difficult child went to Residential Treatment Center (RTC) they couldn't trust me not to pull him out. Well, it was dumb to conclude that because 1) I had never pulled difficult child out of any thing before- although I had switched tdocs for him with good reason but I didn't stop therapy for him, 2) I was the one supporting the idea of Residential Treatment Center (RTC) so why would I pull him out, and most importantly 3) if it was court ordered I would not have been able to puull him out- a secure Residential Treatment Center (RTC) would not have let me just come and get him. Did anyone think about these things? NO. They just automatically went with the conclusion the GAL said. The GAL recommended Department of Juvenile Justice when the plan to send difficult child home with no punishment didn't work then she immediately went to difficult child after court and told him it was my fault. I'm not sayi ng these people are out to get me- I'm saying they are so set on this in their minds that they cannot be objective or see anything that they don't feel confirms what they believe already. [/QUOTE]
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