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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 393210" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>midwest mom sorry to hear you went thru the step family thing as well in a sense with your husband. it isnt' easy in any way at all. the kids dont' live with us, their only here 2x a week with-us. they live with their mother and mother's partner, mom came out of closet 5 years ago and announced she was gay. yup alot of junk kids went thru.</p><p> </p><p>little ones and i are solid, they love me i love them and mom's influence hasnt' won out i got them early on so that has a huge advantage to it. the oldest, no in no way do i want a relationship with-her in the future. she has been a huge huge problem since day 1 and it's never stopped. she is manipulative, explosive, i have no clue what her problem is yet there's alot there. behavioral possible because that's exactly what mom is. so alot of environmental factors there.</p><p> </p><p>i just know i've taken my hits with this child, been threatened by her physically, verbally attacked on numerous occasions thank god difficult child wasn't around or easy child when it happened. one time going back years and years ago she actually had the nerve to slap difficult child when i ran to the store and husband was home with-all of them. let's just say that never happened again. this past summer we took all the kids camping rented a cabin for 4 days. and yes step daughter started with easy child there as well.</p><p> </p><p>i am polite in her presence, would never be anything but. yet when she treats me badly she is removed from our home by husband. this has not happened in a long time because she's chosen not to come here. which honestly both husband and i are ok with. when she is here or was years ago there is that extra layer of drama that none of us need. once we got her out things calmed. was good.</p><p> </p><p>so husband's and my plan for xmas is if she does come and begins in anyway to act inappropriately he will calmly get her attention put her in the truck and deliver her to her mother's house. i will not have my kids holiday ruined due to her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 393210, member: 4514"] midwest mom sorry to hear you went thru the step family thing as well in a sense with your husband. it isnt' easy in any way at all. the kids dont' live with us, their only here 2x a week with-us. they live with their mother and mother's partner, mom came out of closet 5 years ago and announced she was gay. yup alot of junk kids went thru. little ones and i are solid, they love me i love them and mom's influence hasnt' won out i got them early on so that has a huge advantage to it. the oldest, no in no way do i want a relationship with-her in the future. she has been a huge huge problem since day 1 and it's never stopped. she is manipulative, explosive, i have no clue what her problem is yet there's alot there. behavioral possible because that's exactly what mom is. so alot of environmental factors there. i just know i've taken my hits with this child, been threatened by her physically, verbally attacked on numerous occasions thank god difficult child wasn't around or easy child when it happened. one time going back years and years ago she actually had the nerve to slap difficult child when i ran to the store and husband was home with-all of them. let's just say that never happened again. this past summer we took all the kids camping rented a cabin for 4 days. and yes step daughter started with easy child there as well. i am polite in her presence, would never be anything but. yet when she treats me badly she is removed from our home by husband. this has not happened in a long time because she's chosen not to come here. which honestly both husband and i are ok with. when she is here or was years ago there is that extra layer of drama that none of us need. once we got her out things calmed. was good. so husband's and my plan for xmas is if she does come and begins in anyway to act inappropriately he will calmly get her attention put her in the truck and deliver her to her mother's house. i will not have my kids holiday ruined due to her. [/QUOTE]
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