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Step Mom of substance addicted teen, needs advice
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 451774" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/congratualtions.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":congratualtions:" title="congratualtions :congratualtions:" data-shortname=":congratualtions:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/beautifulthing.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":beautifulthing:" title="beautiful thing :beautifulthing:" data-shortname=":beautifulthing:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/consoling.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":consoling:" title="consoling :consoling:" data-shortname=":consoling:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p><p></p><p>Congrats on being "late". If you do have a viable pregnancy, stress is the LAST thing you need.</p><p></p><p>Having said that I'd make it clear to J that you, husband and biomom are all on the same page, and the rules at her house apply at yours as well. (modified to fit your family and lifestyle) A 'heartfelt' letter is not needed if you are all truly on the same page. It is what it is. If this alone keeps him away, then that's a choice he makes. </p><p></p><p>If you try the 'ambush' approach, then you MUST be ready for a fight, and MUST be ready for "Christmas to be ruined". in my opinion sometimes these types of fights are necessary, and it's a good and worthy fight to have, but be ready for it and stay strong through it. You are, in essence, fighting for <strong>his</strong> life. IF, however, you are pregnant, racing into the front lines is not a prudent decision.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 451774, member: 11965"] :congratualtions::beautifulthing::consoling::hugs: Congrats on being "late". If you do have a viable pregnancy, stress is the LAST thing you need. Having said that I'd make it clear to J that you, husband and biomom are all on the same page, and the rules at her house apply at yours as well. (modified to fit your family and lifestyle) A 'heartfelt' letter is not needed if you are all truly on the same page. It is what it is. If this alone keeps him away, then that's a choice he makes. If you try the 'ambush' approach, then you MUST be ready for a fight, and MUST be ready for "Christmas to be ruined". in my opinion sometimes these types of fights are necessary, and it's a good and worthy fight to have, but be ready for it and stay strong through it. You are, in essence, fighting for [B]his[/B] life. IF, however, you are pregnant, racing into the front lines is not a prudent decision. [/QUOTE]
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