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<blockquote data-quote="MuM_of_OCD_kiddo" data-source="post: 456692" data-attributes="member: 12241"><p>If you meant me, you are welcome to pm me privately, will gladly talk with both of you. Not so sure about the calm and wise counsel though - we bumped heads quite a bits at first. But along with chosing to make changes for myself, I also chose to refuse to be goaded along or have my buttons pushed. And oh by the way - we had pee problems too - a different variety than you - but yeah - dominance stuff alright! [Also gone!!!] And Food in the new couch under the cushions. Trash everywhere. Windows + doors open with the AC or heat on. Things taken and broken and hidden [and later left out in the open]. Oh yeah - me gots lots of t-shirts, LOL.</p><p></p><p>Let me ask you this - can you reach him at all? Is there any reasonable talking possible at some time or another? At first I couldn't reach mine by means of reasonable talking at all. NOT at ALL! He was just mad, ****** with himself due to the thought type Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) among other things. ****** with me for having him. ****** with his father passing on his troublesome genes. I can't tell you how many times he told me I should have had an abortion instead of having him. Stinking mad because it was raining. Stinking mad because the sun was shining. Stinking mad because - well whatever comes to mind...</p><p></p><p>Yours is a lot different from mine - I think you need to really make it all come together and have everybody - all the psychiatrists/tdocs/councillors/teachers - everybody come together and try to make a go at it. I would def. look into possibly different medications, doses tweaking, maybe changing therapist if his doesn't reach him. 14 is a hard enough time without all the extra stuff he has going on. Between hormones, male "stuff" waking up, girls getting interesting - this is a tough time. </p><p></p><p>Pm me if you like, I have a shoulder to cry on, and if some of the things that worked for me work for you, more power to you! Hugs to you and Chris!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MuM_of_OCD_kiddo, post: 456692, member: 12241"] If you meant me, you are welcome to pm me privately, will gladly talk with both of you. Not so sure about the calm and wise counsel though - we bumped heads quite a bits at first. But along with chosing to make changes for myself, I also chose to refuse to be goaded along or have my buttons pushed. And oh by the way - we had pee problems too - a different variety than you - but yeah - dominance stuff alright! [Also gone!!!] And Food in the new couch under the cushions. Trash everywhere. Windows + doors open with the AC or heat on. Things taken and broken and hidden [and later left out in the open]. Oh yeah - me gots lots of t-shirts, LOL. Let me ask you this - can you reach him at all? Is there any reasonable talking possible at some time or another? At first I couldn't reach mine by means of reasonable talking at all. NOT at ALL! He was just mad, ****** with himself due to the thought type Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) among other things. ****** with me for having him. ****** with his father passing on his troublesome genes. I can't tell you how many times he told me I should have had an abortion instead of having him. Stinking mad because it was raining. Stinking mad because the sun was shining. Stinking mad because - well whatever comes to mind... Yours is a lot different from mine - I think you need to really make it all come together and have everybody - all the psychiatrists/tdocs/councillors/teachers - everybody come together and try to make a go at it. I would def. look into possibly different medications, doses tweaking, maybe changing therapist if his doesn't reach him. 14 is a hard enough time without all the extra stuff he has going on. Between hormones, male "stuff" waking up, girls getting interesting - this is a tough time. Pm me if you like, I have a shoulder to cry on, and if some of the things that worked for me work for you, more power to you! Hugs to you and Chris! [/QUOTE]
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