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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 667728" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>She may be testing you with the "if I don't call her or answer her texts she will be so worried about me that she will give me what I want"</p><p>She may also just be angry and not ready to talk. Right now she's busy with moving into an apt with the new guy so that is what is most likely occupying her thoughts and time.</p><p>Trust me on this, when she gets to a point that things are not "working" for her, like a fight with the new guy or the need for money to pay the rent, she will get in touch with you.</p><p>It's a very common method of operation for our DCs that they won't contact mom or dad while things are going well but as soon as trouble arises they expect us to make it all go away.</p><p></p><p>If you want to send her a text I would keep it simple. I would not ask her how she's doing or say that you are worried about her, I would keep it along the lines of "Hi honey, just thinking about you and wanted to let you know I love you"</p><p></p><p>Hang in there!! I know it's not easy but you can get through this.</p><p></p><p>Go out and do something wonderful for yourself!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 667728, member: 18516"] She may be testing you with the "if I don't call her or answer her texts she will be so worried about me that she will give me what I want" She may also just be angry and not ready to talk. Right now she's busy with moving into an apt with the new guy so that is what is most likely occupying her thoughts and time. Trust me on this, when she gets to a point that things are not "working" for her, like a fight with the new guy or the need for money to pay the rent, she will get in touch with you. It's a very common method of operation for our DCs that they won't contact mom or dad while things are going well but as soon as trouble arises they expect us to make it all go away. If you want to send her a text I would keep it simple. I would not ask her how she's doing or say that you are worried about her, I would keep it along the lines of "Hi honey, just thinking about you and wanted to let you know I love you" Hang in there!! I know it's not easy but you can get through this. Go out and do something wonderful for yourself!! [/QUOTE]
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