Ok, I'm tired of having my e-mail blown up when we get a good conversation going here but I still want to get the alert in the upper right hand corner that someone has responded. How do I shut off the e-mail alerts?
To stop the email notifications generated by private conversations then uncheck the "Receive email when a new conversation message is received" setting under "Contact Details".
Alert settings can be fine tuned in your account settings under "Alert Preferences".