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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 307890" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Me too... How do I get the fun of losing the child I wanted so badly? How do I deserve this? And then how did I get to repress the memory so it comes back to haunt me later?</p><p> </p><p>How do I get to raise someone else's children and help them through all of the baggage? Why do I get to be the one who pays for everything while husband is struggling to find a job and then, when he finds one, he has so many bills that I am <em>still</em> paying for everything?</p><p> </p><p>Why is it that I get home after 9 hours at work + 30 minutes drive time (total), and I have to nag people to do their chores and homework? Why do I have to do the laundry by myself? Why won't anyone put their clothes away without being reminded? And the dishes that could go in the dishwasher - why are they in the sink?</p><p> </p><p>And then I have to deal with BM because husband is at work, and feed the kids, and get them to bed, and then get them up in the morning because husband is asleep due to working so late?</p><p> </p><p>Why am I the person that friends come to for advice, and then when they ignore what I tell them, or they figure it out themselves, they blame me?</p><p> </p><p>Why do I get to be the person that "fixes" things?</p><p> </p><p>OK, I'm done. Next!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 307890, member: 6705"] Me too... How do I get the fun of losing the child I wanted so badly? How do I deserve this? And then how did I get to repress the memory so it comes back to haunt me later? How do I get to raise someone else's children and help them through all of the baggage? Why do I get to be the one who pays for everything while husband is struggling to find a job and then, when he finds one, he has so many bills that I am [I]still[/I] paying for everything? Why is it that I get home after 9 hours at work + 30 minutes drive time (total), and I have to nag people to do their chores and homework? Why do I have to do the laundry by myself? Why won't anyone put their clothes away without being reminded? And the dishes that could go in the dishwasher - why are they in the sink? And then I have to deal with BM because husband is at work, and feed the kids, and get them to bed, and then get them up in the morning because husband is asleep due to working so late? Why am I the person that friends come to for advice, and then when they ignore what I tell them, or they figure it out themselves, they blame me? Why do I get to be the person that "fixes" things? OK, I'm done. Next! [/QUOTE]
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