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Stressed...feel like Im stuck between a rock and a hard place!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 318179" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Oh Cass, what a mess. And what a bad spot for you to be put in. I completely understand how you've raised your kids and want your time in life to live what you put aside to raise the kids. I also understand you love your grandson and don't want him put up for adoption. </p><p></p><p>I have to say, I'm feeling some anger at your difficult child for putting you and your husband in this position, as well as your grandchild in this position. He is choosing this, he can change this. I want to put my foot up his hind end.</p><p></p><p>The only upside if you gain custody, is you would be out from the thumb of CAS and the rules they impose on you. This would allow you to decide to make conditions for helping difficult child with what he needs as a son, by requiring him to meet some expectations, such as visitation (at HIS home) for you to have respite, etc. </p><p></p><p>I can't imagine how it feels for you to be stuck in this position. (((Hugs))) and if you need an ear, you have my number.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 318179, member: 4264"] Oh Cass, what a mess. And what a bad spot for you to be put in. I completely understand how you've raised your kids and want your time in life to live what you put aside to raise the kids. I also understand you love your grandson and don't want him put up for adoption. I have to say, I'm feeling some anger at your difficult child for putting you and your husband in this position, as well as your grandchild in this position. He is choosing this, he can change this. I want to put my foot up his hind end. The only upside if you gain custody, is you would be out from the thumb of CAS and the rules they impose on you. This would allow you to decide to make conditions for helping difficult child with what he needs as a son, by requiring him to meet some expectations, such as visitation (at HIS home) for you to have respite, etc. I can't imagine how it feels for you to be stuck in this position. (((Hugs))) and if you need an ear, you have my number. [/QUOTE]
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