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<blockquote data-quote="Cass1" data-source="post: 318892" data-attributes="member: 2629"><p>Both the parents are very capable of looking after there son the mom more so then difficult child(if he stayed on his medications),CAS got involved a few yrs ago not sure if anyone remembers the story so Ill refresh your memories its been awhile.My difficult children girlfriends daughter fell down alot of stairs at her bio grandmas house she hit her head on concrete the grandma never took her to get checked the next day she took her back to difficult child and mom.She appeard ok but a bit sleepy and because the grandma told mom she kept and eye on her checked her out and she was fine mom went by what grandma said.2 days after the fall her eyes started to swell we rushed her to the hospital to find she had head trauma <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> So after CAS did a **** poor investigation the blamed difficult child because he's moody and when questioned if anything happened while in his care he told them about a incedent that happened a week before where she bounced her on the bed playing and she bumped the back of her head (all her injurys were on the left side of her head).As soon as difficult child told them about that the police arrested him and our lifes been a nightmare ever since <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> Also CAS looked back to info they had on difficult child with all my troubles I had with him so he was a good target to blame.They made there own story out of what happened and difficult child was trying to be honest,they said he didnt bounce her the day he said that he probably threw her out of anger not bounced her playing.Meanwhile the grandma and everyone at her house told what happened with the stairs and described where she hit and where she had a bump on her head and everything.Yet CAS wanted to believe difficult child did it and even though difficult child is moody and is bipolar he would never hurt anyone hes awesome with his younger brother and sister and his son when he takes the time.Problem is being difficult child he had the attitude I didnt do anything wrong so CAS can screw them selves Im not doing anything they tell me to so that would be why the kids were never returned to them.CAS wanted him to take a anger management group and them both to take parenting groups and I understand when your not guilty its unfair to go through what difficult child and his girlfriend went through but if you want your kids back you need to do what they ask wether you like it or not.</p><p>As for them reproducing anymore children the parents are no longer together and after this experiance I have learned to say no and Ive already had a girl try to tell me she thought she was pregnant with difficult children kid and I told her forget I even exist because if you are ,our family will never be involved.I may sound like a <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> but Im not doing it again so I wont be getting close to any babys difficult child ends up having.Thanks for the support though.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cass1, post: 318892, member: 2629"] Both the parents are very capable of looking after there son the mom more so then difficult child(if he stayed on his medications),CAS got involved a few yrs ago not sure if anyone remembers the story so Ill refresh your memories its been awhile.My difficult children girlfriends daughter fell down alot of stairs at her bio grandmas house she hit her head on concrete the grandma never took her to get checked the next day she took her back to difficult child and mom.She appeard ok but a bit sleepy and because the grandma told mom she kept and eye on her checked her out and she was fine mom went by what grandma said.2 days after the fall her eyes started to swell we rushed her to the hospital to find she had head trauma :( So after CAS did a **** poor investigation the blamed difficult child because he's moody and when questioned if anything happened while in his care he told them about a incedent that happened a week before where she bounced her on the bed playing and she bumped the back of her head (all her injurys were on the left side of her head).As soon as difficult child told them about that the police arrested him and our lifes been a nightmare ever since :( Also CAS looked back to info they had on difficult child with all my troubles I had with him so he was a good target to blame.They made there own story out of what happened and difficult child was trying to be honest,they said he didnt bounce her the day he said that he probably threw her out of anger not bounced her playing.Meanwhile the grandma and everyone at her house told what happened with the stairs and described where she hit and where she had a bump on her head and everything.Yet CAS wanted to believe difficult child did it and even though difficult child is moody and is bipolar he would never hurt anyone hes awesome with his younger brother and sister and his son when he takes the time.Problem is being difficult child he had the attitude I didnt do anything wrong so CAS can screw them selves Im not doing anything they tell me to so that would be why the kids were never returned to them.CAS wanted him to take a anger management group and them both to take parenting groups and I understand when your not guilty its unfair to go through what difficult child and his girlfriend went through but if you want your kids back you need to do what they ask wether you like it or not. As for them reproducing anymore children the parents are no longer together and after this experiance I have learned to say no and Ive already had a girl try to tell me she thought she was pregnant with difficult children kid and I told her forget I even exist because if you are ,our family will never be involved.I may sound like a :censored2: but Im not doing it again so I wont be getting close to any babys difficult child ends up having.Thanks for the support though. [/QUOTE]
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