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<blockquote data-quote="tishthedish" data-source="post: 706795" data-attributes="member: 17103"><p>Keep your home your sanctuary. You are going to need it and so is your grand daughter. I picture a perimeter around my yard and my difficult child/dren/others on the outside. Keep space for yourself. Read how at one time or another we have lost ourselves. Please listen to your head and let your daughter experience the consequences of her probation. My sons have been on probation and had to do community service, take anger management courses, take 75 hours of substance abuse classes, had to go to a victim impact meeting, meet with his officer every two weeks, has check ups at home. Your daughter's offenses are much more serious. Her probation might be very demanding AND is she has nowhere to go it is up to the state/legal system to find her housing and a permanent address for them to check on her. Let the courts and legal system take their course. And what your other children think? They don't get a vote until they have children of their own. Good luck and create a peaceful environment in your home. It doesn't wash away the worry, but it takes away the everyday conflicts, confrontations and fear. Walking on eggshells in your own home is no way to live. Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tishthedish, post: 706795, member: 17103"] Keep your home your sanctuary. You are going to need it and so is your grand daughter. I picture a perimeter around my yard and my difficult child/dren/others on the outside. Keep space for yourself. Read how at one time or another we have lost ourselves. Please listen to your head and let your daughter experience the consequences of her probation. My sons have been on probation and had to do community service, take anger management courses, take 75 hours of substance abuse classes, had to go to a victim impact meeting, meet with his officer every two weeks, has check ups at home. Your daughter's offenses are much more serious. Her probation might be very demanding AND is she has nowhere to go it is up to the state/legal system to find her housing and a permanent address for them to check on her. Let the courts and legal system take their course. And what your other children think? They don't get a vote until they have children of their own. Good luck and create a peaceful environment in your home. It doesn't wash away the worry, but it takes away the everyday conflicts, confrontations and fear. Walking on eggshells in your own home is no way to live. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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