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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 706808" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I am afraid that if she lives with granddaughter she will gain legal grounds and be able to take baby from you once she leaves. Is she establishing an attempt to be a mother by moving in? The courts can stupidly favor biological parents, even horrible mothers, over a child's welfare.i saw this in foster care. It's partly why we quit doing it.</p><p></p><p>Did you receive legal custody? If not, I think you should try.</p><p></p><p>If you have any inclination to bring dangerous daughter in your house, please please call your family law lawyer first. Your daughter may be sort of young at 21 (I dontj think it's that young or that her crimes were linked to her age,) but your granddaughter is FOUR. She needs protection. Most 21 year olds are graduating college, working full time, in the military, growing up...Your daughter chose crime and she knew it and also knew this would harm her child but she did not care. She is certainly old enough to know about the consequences for herself AND her child, even if she didn't care enough to take care of herself and more importantly...The baby. That is not good...</p><p>.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and luck. You may be fighting your in my opinion clueless family...We Are here though. Take a time out from those who are giving u advice that feels wrong in your gut. Trust your gut.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 706808, member: 1550"] I am afraid that if she lives with granddaughter she will gain legal grounds and be able to take baby from you once she leaves. Is she establishing an attempt to be a mother by moving in? The courts can stupidly favor biological parents, even horrible mothers, over a child's welfare.i saw this in foster care. It's partly why we quit doing it. Did you receive legal custody? If not, I think you should try. If you have any inclination to bring dangerous daughter in your house, please please call your family law lawyer first. Your daughter may be sort of young at 21 (I dontj think it's that young or that her crimes were linked to her age,) but your granddaughter is FOUR. She needs protection. Most 21 year olds are graduating college, working full time, in the military, growing up...Your daughter chose crime and she knew it and also knew this would harm her child but she did not care. She is certainly old enough to know about the consequences for herself AND her child, even if she didn't care enough to take care of herself and more importantly...The baby. That is not good... . Hugs and luck. You may be fighting your in my opinion clueless family...We Are here though. Take a time out from those who are giving u advice that feels wrong in your gut. Trust your gut. [/QUOTE]
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