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<blockquote data-quote="litbitblack" data-source="post: 710175" data-attributes="member: 12870"><p>Well its been a month and a 1/2 since she got out of jail. She is no longer living at my sisters as I knew they were to much alike and it wouldn't work out so my mom gave in and is letting her stay there. Her probation officer got her a job and she has been there a little over a week. My daughter doesn't feel I should finalize the custody case because she wants her daughter back and went so far as to say "I want to let her stay here but maintain custody." My attorney said I need to come in and discuss visitation because right now we have it ordered supervised at a specific place and basically we are not doing that. I do want to lift the supervised and allow her more access. She is not in a place where she can raise her right now and my mom won't allow my grand baby to stay the night so its just visits during the day time. What is everyone elses experience with finalizing custody orders? I know in the future she wants her to live with her but I just don't trust her to be able to manage the stresses of life and not turn back to smoking weed which is then a probation violation. I want to go ahead and ask to maintain conservativeship with the primary right to decide where my grand daughter lives that way I can allow her to return to her mom when her mom has her life right....opinions please.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="litbitblack, post: 710175, member: 12870"] Well its been a month and a 1/2 since she got out of jail. She is no longer living at my sisters as I knew they were to much alike and it wouldn't work out so my mom gave in and is letting her stay there. Her probation officer got her a job and she has been there a little over a week. My daughter doesn't feel I should finalize the custody case because she wants her daughter back and went so far as to say "I want to let her stay here but maintain custody." My attorney said I need to come in and discuss visitation because right now we have it ordered supervised at a specific place and basically we are not doing that. I do want to lift the supervised and allow her more access. She is not in a place where she can raise her right now and my mom won't allow my grand baby to stay the night so its just visits during the day time. What is everyone elses experience with finalizing custody orders? I know in the future she wants her to live with her but I just don't trust her to be able to manage the stresses of life and not turn back to smoking weed which is then a probation violation. I want to go ahead and ask to maintain conservativeship with the primary right to decide where my grand daughter lives that way I can allow her to return to her mom when her mom has her life right....opinions please. [/QUOTE]
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