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<blockquote data-quote="litbitblack" data-source="post: 715751" data-attributes="member: 12870"><p>Well it's been a little while since I've posted and things haven't really changed . We do finally have a final hearing for custody in September. I am not sure if my daughter is aware of this court hearing it or not. Thanks have not really changed with her. Her pending charge for the money order theft is pending still. The detective did come to talk to her and she told my mom that they said that it did look like she took the money order and they were going to continue to investigate so I'm not sure if that means they are going to actually pass charges I'm not positive how that works. She told my my mom that her probation officer said that she was not going to violate her for that that she would just do some time in jail I'm not sure how accurate that is. Her behavior has not changed and she continues to have that I can get what I want attitude. She's barely making enough to pay her probation and court fees and continues to live with my mother as well as collect food stamps claiming her daughter who does not live with her. The dad remains in jail with a release date in September. My younger daughter purchased a car but does not yet have her full license . I had to put the car in my name because she does not have her lesson chair and a schedule to take her test in August. I also have to have the car and my youngest daughter to my insurance so that she could drive it and with that I excluded the older daughter and my son that it was the best way to get the cheapest insurance. We went to a wedding a week ago and her car was going to stay here so I took her car keys and left them with my son because I know she would allow her sister to drive her car. Which is exactly what happened and my oldest daughter got pissed off because I wouldn't give her the keys and proceeded to call me a <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> and a whore and shut the <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> up etc. She also proceeded to tell me that I was saved in her contacts as My first name rather than mom and that because she was my daughter it was my responsibility to make sure that she was taking care of while we were gone. My son left the keys on the desk and she came and got them and I informed her that if anything happens it is unauthorized use of a vehicle and she can expect charges because I am not going to be responsible for her getting into any trouble with that vehicle. I also informed my youngest daughter that if something happened her car and then she would be without one . We have been back a week and the one daughter has not given The other daughter her car back. She comes to pick her up and takes her to work.so I imagine there's gonna be a big fight when she actually does get her License. Since she has had the car I have noticed that she is staying up at night for more than one day at a time and then crashing and always has a strange person in the car. She has posted on Facebook if anybody was awake for that smoke and it makes me think that she's out dealing again. My mom said she saw her driving over on a crackhouse out of town . And I figure it's just a matter of time until she's in jail for something or another . My attorney tells me I shouldn't have any problems with getting permanent custody and I'm also going to ask the supervisor visits and restrict the Dad from visiting as he didn't visit when he had supervised visits as well as the dad mom posted on her Facebook page a threat for kidnapping and I did get a picture of the post. I try not to feel bad thinking negative thoughts but I really feel she needs to spend time in jail. Uggg it's so frustrating!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="litbitblack, post: 715751, member: 12870"] Well it's been a little while since I've posted and things haven't really changed . We do finally have a final hearing for custody in September. I am not sure if my daughter is aware of this court hearing it or not. Thanks have not really changed with her. Her pending charge for the money order theft is pending still. The detective did come to talk to her and she told my mom that they said that it did look like she took the money order and they were going to continue to investigate so I'm not sure if that means they are going to actually pass charges I'm not positive how that works. She told my my mom that her probation officer said that she was not going to violate her for that that she would just do some time in jail I'm not sure how accurate that is. Her behavior has not changed and she continues to have that I can get what I want attitude. She's barely making enough to pay her probation and court fees and continues to live with my mother as well as collect food stamps claiming her daughter who does not live with her. The dad remains in jail with a release date in September. My younger daughter purchased a car but does not yet have her full license . I had to put the car in my name because she does not have her lesson chair and a schedule to take her test in August. I also have to have the car and my youngest daughter to my insurance so that she could drive it and with that I excluded the older daughter and my son that it was the best way to get the cheapest insurance. We went to a wedding a week ago and her car was going to stay here so I took her car keys and left them with my son because I know she would allow her sister to drive her car. Which is exactly what happened and my oldest daughter got pissed off because I wouldn't give her the keys and proceeded to call me a :censored2: and a whore and shut the :censored2: up etc. She also proceeded to tell me that I was saved in her contacts as My first name rather than mom and that because she was my daughter it was my responsibility to make sure that she was taking care of while we were gone. My son left the keys on the desk and she came and got them and I informed her that if anything happens it is unauthorized use of a vehicle and she can expect charges because I am not going to be responsible for her getting into any trouble with that vehicle. I also informed my youngest daughter that if something happened her car and then she would be without one . We have been back a week and the one daughter has not given The other daughter her car back. She comes to pick her up and takes her to work.so I imagine there's gonna be a big fight when she actually does get her License. Since she has had the car I have noticed that she is staying up at night for more than one day at a time and then crashing and always has a strange person in the car. She has posted on Facebook if anybody was awake for that smoke and it makes me think that she's out dealing again. My mom said she saw her driving over on a crackhouse out of town . And I figure it's just a matter of time until she's in jail for something or another . My attorney tells me I shouldn't have any problems with getting permanent custody and I'm also going to ask the supervisor visits and restrict the Dad from visiting as he didn't visit when he had supervised visits as well as the dad mom posted on her Facebook page a threat for kidnapping and I did get a picture of the post. I try not to feel bad thinking negative thoughts but I really feel she needs to spend time in jail. Uggg it's so frustrating!!! [/QUOTE]
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