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Suffering at the hands of an adult daughter
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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 705707" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>it is very very hard to detach from those we love to the moon and back. As part of my healing along with seeing a therapist I began to take meditation classes with guided meditations. In those I journeyed to a path where I became the little girl again. One who wanted love and safety and light all around her. I began to realize that I was allowing this little girl to be attacked by the difficult adult child, to be threatened and abused and leaving her powerless. That's when my soul finally kicked in....I had to protect her (me) and every time now when things start to look like they are going badly, I reach inside and hug that little girl and protect her with all of my heart. Since I have been doing this its like an aura has surrounded me where difficult son has backed off. All of us on this forum love our children so much...but we need to remember to love ourselves first. hugs to you all</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 705707, member: 20373"] it is very very hard to detach from those we love to the moon and back. As part of my healing along with seeing a therapist I began to take meditation classes with guided meditations. In those I journeyed to a path where I became the little girl again. One who wanted love and safety and light all around her. I began to realize that I was allowing this little girl to be attacked by the difficult adult child, to be threatened and abused and leaving her powerless. That's when my soul finally kicked in....I had to protect her (me) and every time now when things start to look like they are going badly, I reach inside and hug that little girl and protect her with all of my heart. Since I have been doing this its like an aura has surrounded me where difficult son has backed off. All of us on this forum love our children so much...but we need to remember to love ourselves first. hugs to you all [/QUOTE]
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