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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 564996" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>As I often do I'm going to insert a story that is a bit off the beaten path. The network with Diane Sawyer invited honor students from arund the Country to meet in Atlanta (with a parent) to have a National discussion on "Contemporary Teenage Behavior". Every single one of the kids was darling, most were National Honor Society members, church goers, community leaders and...from very nice families. I watched as easy child/difficult child was still a high school teen.</p><p></p><p>OMG! These kids (mind you on National television) attested to the fact that the girls "got it over" at the beginning of the outings so they guys would "chill and be fun". "It" was oral sex. I've raised eight teens and I was embarrassed watching the innocence of those outstanding girls. "The boys need and expect us to do it so we get it over early and then we can fun at the bowling alley or the dance or whatever." </p><p></p><p>I knew for a fact that the nicest, highest achieving girls in our community accepted oral sex as a responsibility that came with having a boyfriend. My easy child/difficult child was a BMOC and thru my grapevine I was embarrassed to know that the "dumb" girls (with straight A's and leadership roles in school and community) gave it up for him. He did not brag about it. He did not tell me. BUT I heard and was aghast. That has been ten years ago and the young adult women continued the pattern.</p><p></p><p>How do you protect your teens? Great question. I thank God there have been no STD's. I think I have a great grandchild who was conceived when he was fourteen..SIGH!...but the teen Mom never contacted him for support.</p><p>I don't envy you guys who are on the hot seat now. It is beyond my perception in 2012, My only advice is keep your ears open, introduce birth control etc. at the earliest hint of budding sexuality. It's a **** shoot. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 564996, member: 35"] As I often do I'm going to insert a story that is a bit off the beaten path. The network with Diane Sawyer invited honor students from arund the Country to meet in Atlanta (with a parent) to have a National discussion on "Contemporary Teenage Behavior". Every single one of the kids was darling, most were National Honor Society members, church goers, community leaders and...from very nice families. I watched as easy child/difficult child was still a high school teen. OMG! These kids (mind you on National television) attested to the fact that the girls "got it over" at the beginning of the outings so they guys would "chill and be fun". "It" was oral sex. I've raised eight teens and I was embarrassed watching the innocence of those outstanding girls. "The boys need and expect us to do it so we get it over early and then we can fun at the bowling alley or the dance or whatever." I knew for a fact that the nicest, highest achieving girls in our community accepted oral sex as a responsibility that came with having a boyfriend. My easy child/difficult child was a BMOC and thru my grapevine I was embarrassed to know that the "dumb" girls (with straight A's and leadership roles in school and community) gave it up for him. He did not brag about it. He did not tell me. BUT I heard and was aghast. That has been ten years ago and the young adult women continued the pattern. How do you protect your teens? Great question. I thank God there have been no STD's. I think I have a great grandchild who was conceived when he was fourteen..SIGH!...but the teen Mom never contacted him for support. I don't envy you guys who are on the hot seat now. It is beyond my perception in 2012, My only advice is keep your ears open, introduce birth control etc. at the earliest hint of budding sexuality. It's a **** shoot. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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