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Surely his demise can't be far away? Sorry, VERY long!
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<blockquote data-quote="blackgnat" data-source="post: 655859" data-attributes="member: 13561"><p>Thanks so much for your kind words-for some reason I feel laid low by this. Normally I take it in stride, but I feel that there really isn't hope.</p><p></p><p>Both my ex and the exgfs mother feel that he should leave CO and go to San Diego (he was born there and has always wanted to go back-at least he won't freeze) and maybe start a new round of games...</p><p></p><p>Apparently there has always been a restraining order against him even being at my ex's apartment complex (tho the exgf lived very near) but none of us knew that.</p><p></p><p>I just feel like I have truly lost him and I will need time to process this. It's always two steps forward, one step back with me. I sometimes feel so strong and capable and detached (though you'd never thinks that by reading my posts!) and right now I want to cry. I realized that I never really cry about this. Today I want to.</p><p></p><p>His hearing is at 1:30 today. I guess he will be released-not sure. My ex says he will meet him somehwere neutral to discuss what he wants to do. He was GOING to hand over the van to Difficult Child, who wouldn't register it or anything, then let the chips fall where they may. Now I think he's going to buy him a bus ticket to CA. Don't know.</p><p></p><p>The exgf's mother, who has had the patience of a saint, said that she has offered INNUMERABLE options to Difficult Child-researched programs, found places that deal with dual diagnosis etc but he has , at every point, refused.</p><p></p><p>And I guess that's all I really need to know.</p><p></p><p>I realize that I'm not replying individually to all your words of common sense, courage and support and I'm very sorry for that-I really am SO grateful for all the replies but am feeling too overwhelmed right now. But thank you all so much.</p><p></p><p>I found this article and sent him a hard copy of it last time he was in jail (i.e. TEN days ago) and he found it useful ,so I'll pass it along, just in case any of the other warriors on here get something out of it:</p><p></p><p><a href="http://www.newsweek.com/2015/05/01/homeless-millennials-are-transforming-hobo-culture-323151.html" target="_blank">http://www.newsweek.com/2015/05/01/homeless-millennials-are-transforming-hobo-culture-323151.html</a></p><p></p><p>Peace and love to you all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="blackgnat, post: 655859, member: 13561"] Thanks so much for your kind words-for some reason I feel laid low by this. Normally I take it in stride, but I feel that there really isn't hope. Both my ex and the exgfs mother feel that he should leave CO and go to San Diego (he was born there and has always wanted to go back-at least he won't freeze) and maybe start a new round of games... Apparently there has always been a restraining order against him even being at my ex's apartment complex (tho the exgf lived very near) but none of us knew that. I just feel like I have truly lost him and I will need time to process this. It's always two steps forward, one step back with me. I sometimes feel so strong and capable and detached (though you'd never thinks that by reading my posts!) and right now I want to cry. I realized that I never really cry about this. Today I want to. His hearing is at 1:30 today. I guess he will be released-not sure. My ex says he will meet him somehwere neutral to discuss what he wants to do. He was GOING to hand over the van to Difficult Child, who wouldn't register it or anything, then let the chips fall where they may. Now I think he's going to buy him a bus ticket to CA. Don't know. The exgf's mother, who has had the patience of a saint, said that she has offered INNUMERABLE options to Difficult Child-researched programs, found places that deal with dual diagnosis etc but he has , at every point, refused. And I guess that's all I really need to know. I realize that I'm not replying individually to all your words of common sense, courage and support and I'm very sorry for that-I really am SO grateful for all the replies but am feeling too overwhelmed right now. But thank you all so much. I found this article and sent him a hard copy of it last time he was in jail (i.e. TEN days ago) and he found it useful ,so I'll pass it along, just in case any of the other warriors on here get something out of it: [URL]http://www.newsweek.com/2015/05/01/homeless-millennials-are-transforming-hobo-culture-323151.html[/URL] Peace and love to you all. [/QUOTE]
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