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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 21714" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>Per Laura's request, I have moved her original post here to this forum. She needs some help soon!</p><p></p><p>She also pm'd me with some additional details and asked to include that pm for additional information. Here are the additional details included in her pm:</p><p></p><p>---------</p><p></p><p>'Thank you for your suggestion. My brain is so fogged up right now I didn't even think to post this in the Special Education forum. </p><p></p><p>There are more details to the story, but I was trying to keep it short.</p><p></p><p>The rest of the story goes like this...</p><p></p><p>Tuesday last week, my daughter got upset in recess, no one would play with her. </p><p></p><p>I might add her teacher, although superficially very nice, does not like her much, indicated by the things she says to my daughter and notes sent home.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, she was feeling unwanted & was crying. She went to the guidance office and also spoke to the principal. Well she couldn't get her emotions under control and all "attempts" from the school escalated her further. She was kicking a desk and telling them she hated them, that she wanted to die and wanted them to die as well. I had to pick her up from school that day. </p><p></p><p>Wed I had a meeting with the principal and a memeber of the child study team, she returned to school. Somewhere during the day, I'm guessing her teacher requested her to clean her desk. The result was the teacher telling her she was going to dump the desk in a box, embarrassing her. Of course this triggered her again. I'm sure you can tell she's extremely sensitive. Well off to the guidence office again. She made it through the day and came home and told me about it.</p><p></p><p>Friday she was out of school. I got the call from the principal the same day informing me she got a call from a concerned parent stating my daughter said, " I know Ms.... doesn't like me. I don't like her either. I know where she lives. I'm gonna kill her." Apparently this was supposed to have taken place after school the day before and was said in front of several children who were questioned. </p><p></p><p>My problem with this is she blurts things out, she is not known to form such a planned out thought, especially in anger. I've never heard her say such a thing and she's said a lot.</p><p></p><p>I do believe I should have been notified, she should have been questioned at least for self defense.</p><p></p><p>The short of the story is, I've had the child study team evaluate her, she has been classified as emotionally disabled, explosive behavior.</p><p></p><p>I've never had problems with her like this in school before, I believe the teacher is the trigger. I requested to have her moved to a different class & the school refused to budge. So I then requested to get her out of the school. That's where I'm at now. Only problem is they're dragging their feet and now they are doing what they can to keep her out of their "hair". </p><p></p><p>If it would help to add this pm to the Special Education forum, I'm ok with it, or if permissions do not allow, I will add for a complete picture. </p><p></p><p>But again, thank you, thank you, thank you for offering assistance. This truely is a wonderful site. </p><p>_________________________</p><p>difficult child: 10yr/f: explosive/impulsive - major control issues; currently on Depakote, abilify, VERY CLEVER</p><p></p><p>Me: not home enough, on the ledge</p><p></p><p>husband: in hiding but getting better, afraid of what difficult child will do next</p><p></p><p>easy child: 14/F really trys to help with difficult child and has unique ability to ignore it all </p><p></p><p>d me with some additional details and asked to include that pm for additional information. Here are the additional details included in her pm:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 21714, member: 805"] Per Laura's request, I have moved her original post here to this forum. She needs some help soon! She also pm'd me with some additional details and asked to include that pm for additional information. Here are the additional details included in her pm: --------- 'Thank you for your suggestion. My brain is so fogged up right now I didn't even think to post this in the Special Education forum. There are more details to the story, but I was trying to keep it short. The rest of the story goes like this... Tuesday last week, my daughter got upset in recess, no one would play with her. I might add her teacher, although superficially very nice, does not like her much, indicated by the things she says to my daughter and notes sent home. At any rate, she was feeling unwanted & was crying. She went to the guidance office and also spoke to the principal. Well she couldn't get her emotions under control and all "attempts" from the school escalated her further. She was kicking a desk and telling them she hated them, that she wanted to die and wanted them to die as well. I had to pick her up from school that day. Wed I had a meeting with the principal and a memeber of the child study team, she returned to school. Somewhere during the day, I'm guessing her teacher requested her to clean her desk. The result was the teacher telling her she was going to dump the desk in a box, embarrassing her. Of course this triggered her again. I'm sure you can tell she's extremely sensitive. Well off to the guidence office again. She made it through the day and came home and told me about it. Friday she was out of school. I got the call from the principal the same day informing me she got a call from a concerned parent stating my daughter said, " I know Ms.... doesn't like me. I don't like her either. I know where she lives. I'm gonna kill her." Apparently this was supposed to have taken place after school the day before and was said in front of several children who were questioned. My problem with this is she blurts things out, she is not known to form such a planned out thought, especially in anger. I've never heard her say such a thing and she's said a lot. I do believe I should have been notified, she should have been questioned at least for self defense. The short of the story is, I've had the child study team evaluate her, she has been classified as emotionally disabled, explosive behavior. I've never had problems with her like this in school before, I believe the teacher is the trigger. I requested to have her moved to a different class & the school refused to budge. So I then requested to get her out of the school. That's where I'm at now. Only problem is they're dragging their feet and now they are doing what they can to keep her out of their "hair". If it would help to add this pm to the Special Education forum, I'm ok with it, or if permissions do not allow, I will add for a complete picture. But again, thank you, thank you, thank you for offering assistance. This truely is a wonderful site. _________________________ difficult child: 10yr/f: explosive/impulsive - major control issues; currently on Depakote, abilify, VERY CLEVER Me: not home enough, on the ledge husband: in hiding but getting better, afraid of what difficult child will do next easy child: 14/F really trys to help with difficult child and has unique ability to ignore it all d me with some additional details and asked to include that pm for additional information. Here are the additional details included in her pm: [/QUOTE]
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