Confused, YOUR mature support means so much to me. ANd, yes, I know you know. I'm like you. I talk too much. But do you know what? We have a right to get it out and this is a harmless place. Nobody knows us or our family members and if my sister wants to hurt herself by spying, I can't stop her. She has been a major source of sadness in my life since the first time she did her cut out and kept calling the police. I honestly understand why she did it the first time, although she didn't really have to, but after that, it was her way of gaining control. She is a MAJOR control freak and if it takes the cops to get me to do what she wants, she will.
Tom remembers this.
We bought a new car so she didn't know our new address or car license plate and she was mad at me. I do not remember why (this time...there were so many times). So for a while we just didn't hear anything.
WE moved once and did not give her our address, which made it hard to call the cops as she had no idea where we were. One day, we saw Sis and her husband walking past our car in a parking lot. She obviously copied down the license plate number. This is one thing I am sure she will say is fiction. It isn't. Hubby remembers. The next day, we got a visit from the cops tracing us by license plate. She is a real piece of work. While I am a bit puzzled why brother is so cozy with her after what she has done to him, he doesn't bother me. We had a misunderstanding, which SIs and he misconstrued into just me making trouble again, and he holds it against me. Ok. No problem. I don't care. At least he leaves me alone and I doubt he reads my thoughts here, although I'm sure Sis reads them to him. On his own, he's busy and doesn't have the interest in spying on anyone. He's much nicer than her. Just leaving me alone is a kindness.
It's funny how people forget all the good times you had and all the good things you did together and for one another if just ONE incident was not a good one.
He wrote me a letter to complain once, but I can handle that. Crumble it up, put it in the garbage.
That is not the same as this.
Confused, remember how far you have come and don't let anyone make you slide back and don't believe the bad things anyone says about you. YOU know what is in your heart. They don't.